Resurrection After Rape Community Group
Discussion, question-and-answer, general social support, and journal processing for progress-oriented rape survivors. No crisis, no damaging or triggering conflicts--this is for individuals who want to contribute to collective, cooperative action toward the goal of making actual PROGRESS through rape trauma. Much of this work is based on the book "Resurrection After...
I believe people do selfless act of courage all the time; sometimes the payoff is just a feeling of being one with the world and knowing right from wrong.
OKAY specific example. The movie "The Insider" revealed how the reporter had given his word to the whistleblower who then endured death threats and family fallout for going public. Then ABC (or whatever) 60 minutes is part of corporate said they wouldn't allow the segment to air. Everyone went along because airing the show would jeopardize some corporate move, even the other journalist decided to go along with the pull to be loyal to corporate. The journalist who showed courage said he wouldn't agree...it does get aired due to his work behind the scenes. But he also walked at the end and left his job there and says just seeing others not being courageous was too much for him to bear. Yes he had a strong moral base that was to the whistle blower his word and to public health. The others thought their moral base was to protect 60 minutes network and their allegiance; even if that network was making decisions against exposing evil that they could expose.
Sleep to dream: I think you are right there has to be an idea of right or wrong. But that's what someone blowing up an abortion clinic thinks they know right. So does the people who fight for abortion right's laws.
Is there something about courage that makes it clear what is truly right ...
I watched a show about a rapist. A fashion designer. His assistant interview and lied for him and supported him...her eyes in the interview were dull and posture was weak. Later she came to her senses and re interviewed telling the truth... her eyes with brighter with light and her posture more vibrant.
That's more about truth than courage.
Hmmm still don't know what's courage again!!!!
However that same moral person doesn't help a friend when raped.
Where's the courage?
That couldn't happen with just courage or morality alone
Precisely my point. I don't believe there is such a thing as a truly SELFLESS act. Everyone that I have tried to think of has a benefit and as Catroot so beautifully explained...sometimes the pay off is......
I reiterate: there CAN be courage without morality. There CANNOT be morality without courage.
What are examples of being moral?
NOT striking back against someone who has injured or hurt you
Giving up what you want so that others can have what they need
Not cheating, stealing, using others, injuring others, not deceiving others...
There are so many examples of "being moral".
Taking what other's need so one could have what they want ... not moral. Wall Street!!! Greed
Is being moral ... caring.
The other way around, what you said, would be immoral.
So action to either help make something better...
or inaction to not make something worse.