Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
SophiasMom2010
It has been years since I was date raped. I have no idea how many of these guys had sex with me when I was unconscious and obviously I have no clue if they used condoms. 2 years after the rape I got up the nerve to be tested for EVERYTHING and came up negative. A year and a half after that I became pregnant and here in Oregon there's a law that every pregnant woman is screened for every single STD and as far as I know I came up negative, (no one said anything about the results and I'm too terrified to ask).
These days whenever I get a bruise that I don't remember getting I freak out, or when I get nauseous or get a fever I get so scared I throw up.
YES I KNOW I SHOULD GO GET TESTED BUT I AM SO FREAKING SCARED THAT WHENEVER I THINK OF IT I WANT TO THROW UP
I have been in a monogamous relationship since a month after my first test and I have not had sex with anyone else and neither has my boyfriend. However I have had rumors that you can have HIV for years and test negative until your antibody count becomes high enough to be detected. It has been 4 years since the rape.
Is anyone else going through this/been through this? any comment or advice/links to real HIV/AIDS resources helps. Thanks
These days whenever I get a bruise that I don't remember getting I freak out, or when I get nauseous or get a fever I get so scared I throw up.
YES I KNOW I SHOULD GO GET TESTED BUT I AM SO FREAKING SCARED THAT WHENEVER I THINK OF IT I WANT TO THROW UP
I have been in a monogamous relationship since a month after my first test and I have not had sex with anyone else and neither has my boyfriend. However I have had rumors that you can have HIV for years and test negative until your antibody count becomes high enough to be detected. It has been 4 years since the rape.
Is anyone else going through this/been through this? any comment or advice/links to real HIV/AIDS resources helps. Thanks
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Basically, if the test is negative 2 months after exposure, you don't have HIV.
The confusion comes because modern HIV retro-viral treatments reduce the viral level to an undetectable level for years. BUT this with treatment. Untreated, the virus is clearly and reliably detectable in a matter of weeks.
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Bottom like: You don't have AIDS / HIV or any other STI. Relax and get on with your life.
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Is it possible for the body to fight off an HIV infection successfully when one is first exposed? If so, would this not result in anti-bodies to HIV that could cause a positive ELISA test even though you don't have HIV?
As far as being tested for AIDS because of pregnancy, A rule of thumb in medical offices is, "if u r negative, the doctors offices do not call u. Unless u tell them to call u either way. Believe me, if u were positive for AIDS and pregnant, your phone would be ringing off the hook by your doctor until he got u in his office. That did not happen. So chill. U do not have AIDS.
AIDS is "not" as easily caught as a lot of people think. The exposure has to be blood to blood contact. The same as contacting Hepititis C has to be a blood to blood contact. And do u know if u r using condoms to prevent u from getting AIDS, the condoms are not working on that because the size of the AIDS virus molecules are much much smaller than the size of the latex / rubber non latex condom material, even if he doubles up on the condom. Which means if u have sex with someone with AIDS and he wears a condom, r u getting ZERO protection from AIDS. So I would think about that. If u r gonna have sex, make sure before u do, the guy shows u in writting his current test results for every sexually transmitted disease including his AIDS test results. If he refuses, send him out the door, dont sleep with him because chances r he is hiding something.
I understand exactly what u r going thru. I have been raped several times in my life by different men, and trapped in my own home for almost a years raped on almost a daily basis. I use to freak out too. i'd go to the doctor every 6 months to get tested. Finally my doctor had had it with me and he said, "I'm not doin this anymore. You're negative and u have always been negative". I said ok. Well 8 years ago during a nervous breakdown and the flashbacks, back to the doctor i went. I demanded to be tested. And i freaked out for nothin. My results have always been negative. And it sounds like yours is too.