Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
On January 23,2019 My oldest son walked in on my neighbor sons bedroom. When he walked in he has my 6 year old daughter naked on his bed. He had been molesting her since the week of Christmas.
A 13 year old boy who lives around us threatened if he didn't do it to her he would do body harm to him. Then went up to my 6 year old and her to let him and to keep her mouth shut or he was going to kill her!
The police won't do anything about the 9 year old boy who molested my daughter because of his age..
The 13 year old they are stil questioning.
I am so broken how could this happen to her? She is only 6 years old! She is so innocent and sweet..
I am so numb and I can't stop crying.. All she has is nightmares and keeps peeing herself.. I am so broke!
She went through a rape kit and standing there watching it I kept saying this is a nightmare I just want to wake up right now! I still want to wake up and say this was all just a night mare.. How do I help her?
I was molested when I was 11 but I had a mom who was in love with the guy so of course I got no jusice, and when I was 15 I was raped.. If I couldn't and still cant understand it for myself, how can I help her understand? I can I understand?
I feel like I failed her that I didn't protect her. I should have I should have known. I should of been a better mom. I should of paid attention more then I did. I hate myself right now because she is hurting and its not like she skinned her knee and I can kiss all the boo boos away.. This one is there for good this memory is going to always be there.
I just don't know how to help her. She is now seeing a trauma threapist, but this is so unfair, this is so not real atleast it can't real!!!!
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Second, the cops are being lazy if they arent doing anything because hes only 9 they should be!!!! At least get him help :( He needs help too!
Third i am proud of you for talking about it and being there for your daughter and that you have her seeing a trauma therapist! Because of you being there she will be ok, i can tell how much you love her!
Unforatnly I feel the same way I have sence I found out. I think it is just going to be awhile until I don't.. She was up all night screaming and crying. It just broke me even more.. She is so preciouse, sweet and loveable, and I don't see that in her anymore, I see a scared little girl who doesn't know witch way to go..
Yes I want the 9 year old to get the help he needs. That is all I have ever wanted. He needs the help to make sure this never happens to anyone else, and so that he understands what he has done, and that even though he is threatened he needs to tell someone..
I do love her, she is my whole world! She is so amamzing!!
She has always told me everything and this time she didn't feel safe to tell me anything. It just breaks me..
Wsos he save your daughter ( his sister??)?
Is he in therapy also?
Maybe these questions are all wrong, I’m not sure I understood 100%.. but I’ll help where I can.
You are a wonderful mom, parent! You did not fail your daughter... a failure doesn’t want to get help for anyone, a failure doesn’t do anything.. you are trying to help her! And you didn’t wait years to hope she just forgets about it...( that doesn’t work anyway)
You are a wonderful mom, and you are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for! And be proud of your daughter, she’s amazing.. non of this is her fault.. please tell her how much you love her, how proud you are of her, maybe take her out for the day ( it doesn’t have to cost money)
Hang in there.. healing takes time..
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