Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
I saw the creep who helped his friend drug me at a party 5 years ago. I'll never know if he raped me too but he was there when I woke up and he helped his friend carry me from the party to the house so he's still a piece of you-know-what. I had a horrible urge to spit in his face but the old anxiety creeped up and forced me to just turn and pretend I hadn't seen him.
Regardless, it was good to see that he has gained at least 100 lbs, (I've gained weight too but that's because of what he did to me), has at least a weeks worth of gross sweaty-hair gel in his hair and was wearing a stained dirty shirt. He looks disgusting and I hope he lives in his parents basement.
I just wish for ONCE I could muster up the courage to walk right up to one of them and kick him right between the legs. UGH WHY DO THESE FREAKS DESERVE TO LIVE?!
Regardless, it was good to see that he has gained at least 100 lbs, (I've gained weight too but that's because of what he did to me), has at least a weeks worth of gross sweaty-hair gel in his hair and was wearing a stained dirty shirt. He looks disgusting and I hope he lives in his parents basement.
I just wish for ONCE I could muster up the courage to walk right up to one of them and kick him right between the legs. UGH WHY DO THESE FREAKS DESERVE TO LIVE?!
hang in there!
What I don't understand is, why am I so afraid if I see him at K-Mart, the grocery store or on campus? I already did the hard part which was confronting him. maybe it's because I don't know what I would do. If I set up various scenarios and the response that would go with each situation, maybe I'll feel more secure.
Gee, I would never have thought of that if I had not read your discussion. Thanks.
If you want to move on, you've got to accept responsibility for your life, including your healing. Anger is a normal emotion, but by holding onto it for the last five years is damaging you. Do you think they care about what they did to you? Why do you direct so much of your energy towards them five years on?
My hope for you is that you find the strength and courage within you to make a decision to stop allowing the rape to control your life and heal from it.