Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
I love the designs, and the ideas are great but I'm not sure i could wear the garments though. maybe i'm just being stupid.
I still think it's a great idea.
well done to all.
PS: I bought your book and cannot WAIT to get it. :)
I am ALWAYS open to suggestions for designs. Some women prefer emblems that suggest pride, but they don't want the specific issue of rape disclosed--I could understand that. any ideas? Maybe just, "I am a survivor." or something similar?
There are a couple. One of them is in my photos here at DS, and you can see it really big.
The one with a lot more writing is Shannon's prayer/letter for survivors. Read the whole thing, not just the first few lines, to see the positivity of it:
You are a victim. You need to cry and hit rock bottom now. As harsh as that sounds, it is a cleansing process for your soul in order to become a survivor. You dont deserve to be hurt anymore. The secrets and your haunting dreams can be released from the chains you carry everywhere you go. Be gentle to your heart.
Dont drown in the waves of doubt that will crash upon you. Dont beat yourself up anymore. It was not your fault that this has happened, and every time you feel like it is, just read the words over and over again until you are convinced.
You are loved. I love you, God loves you, and every woman who has survived loves you. The world can be cruel, but the demons from your past are weaker than you are today. Stand tall, and as you walk through the rest of your life remember you are not alone.
Every one of us survivors is with each other all the time, we walk with each other every day, and I pray for you every night. I pray you dont lose hope. I pray that you will win this battle and come out alive and strong. I know that you feel wounded right now, but as all wounds do this will become a scar, and just as a little child is proud of their scars you will be proud.
You can make it through this. You are precious and now you belong to an exclusive and proud group of beautiful people who are always there for each other.
Some days are going to be harder to get through than others, and on those days take extra care of your spirit. Thank God you are hearing this letter today because unfortunately some women dont make it through this. Unlike so many people, you need to not give up. Remember, you are not alone. Thank God we both are not alone. Be courageous, and when you feel powerless and hollow, and when you feel weak and weary, tell yourself you survived. Let your spirit feel the peace that is around you.
We are in this together. We will survive this together.
-Shannon Doherty