Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
hi, something happened last weekend after I went home with a boy I just met. I slept with him once back in his and fell asleep because I was quite drunk, but I got woken up to him on top of me having sex with me. I just froze, I have been raped once before and all the memories of it came flooding back because up until that moment I had completely blocked it out, I repressed it and even made myself for get but the problem is I'm remembering things from the time before as well as what's happened now. The worst part is I went back to his last night and slept with him again, I feel as though I'm over reacting and that this isn't anything I should worry about, what's wrong with me why would I go back to his again. I don't even know if it was rape that happened the other night, but just because I said yes the first time doesn't mean I did the next time, how could I? I was sleeping.
Now I am about to say something different. When two people have a chemistry, Friend or significant other, like you would have to know them for a very long time even at least 3 yrs. Hey, he might be able to slide it in while sleeping. But I am quite sure you will wake up and help the feeling. Just saying there are different levels to everything.
People or Guys that assume you want it and they just started talking to you are Turn Offs. they don't know you yet. Hell you don't even know Them. But leave him alone unless your attracted to something about him and start doing a pros and cons list. Start writing and always listen to yourself. That gut feeling will not lead you wrong. If it feels bad in your mind, its bad. I mean even the slightest thought.
One evening I was drinking champagne with my sons father. We were watching the rob Lowe roast in the spare bedroom while my 1 year old was asleep in the other bedroom. I only had two glasses of champagne but hadn’t really drank since before the pregnancy. I started to feel sick to my stomach and then before I knew it I was getting the spins and I turned over on my stomach to rest (I’m a tummy sleeper). The next thing I know he is pulling down my underwear and mounting me. Has anyone ever had the spins so bad that even talking might have made you throw up? That’s how I felt. I was motionless the entire time, like a corpse. I’ve always been an active participant when it came to sex. I have NEvER just planked face down except this one time. After that night he creeps me out when I see him. I also don’t desire sex anymore like I use to. When someone offers me champagne on a special occasion or something, I immediately think of that night and I hate him for that. I hate him for being such a scumbag.. I wanted to report it but I was afraid of my son ever growing up to know that his father is a date raper. I also thought that police wouldn’t take me seriously since he is the father of my child. It’s been a tough road trying to move on and I wonder if I’ll ever be able to be intimate with anyone without thinking about that night