Okay so this wasn’t rape I don’t think but I don’t know what to call it or if it was anything. I don’t know maybe I am overreacting and it was fine but I feel I need to share. So this happened about a month ago but I thought nothing of it because I believed my boyfriend was amazing and didn’t mean to hurt me. But I found out yesterday he cheated on me for a month so now im looking at him differently. So basically we had consentual sex after not seeing each other for awhile. He cleaned himself off, came back and said “round 2”? I told him I didn’t feel right and my vagina really hurt like bad. And he tried to play it off like it was nothing but I told him no. So we cuddled for a bit and he gave me a back massage and let me rest. After about 10min he decided I was okay and continuously tried to force himself into me I kept pushing him out and crying cuz it really hurt. He told me I was overreacting. After a while he got frustrated and we took a shower to try and make it hurt less. I felt a bit better, it was no longer throbbing but I still wasn’t up for sex and I told him no. But he kept persisting until I gave up and just let him do it. I did say okay fine so there was consent. However I remember a lecture I went to said if you have to keep asking over and over again until you get a reluctant and forced yes, it isn’t really consent. But I don’t know I feel uneasy about it and just want to know what everyone thinks. Am I overreacting? Is there a word to describe this? Or was it completely fine. I get it is legally not rape because of the consent but I just want to know if it could be something else.