Rape Support Group

If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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123445
123445

i just turned 15 last month and my two best friends has been dating for about 6 months and i was more close with the guy and the girl and they just broke up and both came to me for support. So 4 days ago i went to the guys house, he has a beach front house and we were gonna go swim. we are really close and we hnag alone all the time. but instead of the beach he wnted to watch a movie and hes my best friend so there was niothing wrong with that to me. he immdietly started trying to kiss me and i kept telling him to stop but he didnt. He plays football and lax and hes really strong so he help me down andi couldnt move. he didnt have sex with me so he didnt rape me but he made me dolike oral stuff so i dont know what that is rly classified as and its not as bad as everyone elses story's. i havent really been able to sleep and its all i think about and i dont want to be with my frends because im not acting myslef and i just want to be in someones company but do nothing if that makes sence. im just struggling and im not sure what to do.

notalone00
notalone00
Very sorry this happened..
he’s a creep, you are a victim, it was rape .
ANY SEXUAL CONTACT that you didn’t agree with with a clear conscience ( you told him stop, and he didn’t.. ) is rape.

There is a website that can help called https://www.rainn.org/

They can help you with talking and who to talk to.

Please, do not think that yours isn’t “as bad as” anyone else’s.. everyone’s abuse is terrible.. by saying yours was not as bad as anyone else is minimizing what happened to you..
it IS a terrible thing, it IS his fault, you did nothing wrong. Being a friend to a person who you thought was a friend was a good thing.. he took advantage of that, and created a victim in HIS selfishness..

You’re not alone, we do understand..


Here’s that site again

https://www.rainn.org/



Notalone00
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