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blackmail time is an issue need help now!

anggie
anggie
I'm being black mailed and I don't know what to do about it. I have been put through hell recently,I don't want to tell the whole story. I've been so screwed up lately that I did something really stupid. Someone offered me $400 to go on webcam for 10 mins, stupid I know but I wasn't thinking straight and I figured if I'm being made to feel so guilty, dirty and whorish for the things already done to me that I might as well get something for it. I wanted to use the money to get away from here, a friend asked me to move in with him and this would of paid for a mounths rent. So I did it (took my cloths off on cam)and now this person says he has gotten hold of a contact list of mine and that he'll send the video clip to everyone if I don't do what he says. He says for the next 2 weeks if he says go on cam I have to but for every girl I trick into doing the same thing I did he'll take 2 days off but I could never do that to someone else or he says if I let him "fuck me good a couple of times" he'll delete it. What do I do?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Call the police. You made a mistake, but it's nothing compared to what this person is doing. Call the police.
anggie
anggie
I can't do that for one I know nothing about him so they would be able to find him and two I'm already fighting agaisnt a national volunteer oranization I can't fight this too and three I've heard enough horror stories about the police and if I went to the police everyone would know.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm so sorry, what an awful situation. The only option for you is to contact the police. You should at least speak to them and ask their advice. Find out what they can do and how they can guarantee your anonymity in all this. You must remember that people are always blackmailed over something they are ashamed of, that's what gives the blackmailer their hold over you. The police will have set procedures in place that are designed to protect you during their investigations.
I am confident they will be able to track this individual - with the tools at their disposal, no one can remain anonymous over the internet.

Please please just approach them and ask them what they can do to help you. Explore your options before you make a decision. As lizl27 says, you made a mistake but you do not deserve any of this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
ONE PHRASE CALL THE POLICE. HE CAN AND WILL BE ARRESTED! CALL IMMEDIATELY. THAT'S EXORTION AND IT'S AGAINST THE LAW. I WAS VIDEO TAPED WITH THE GUY THAT RAPED ME. I STILL TO THIS DAY DON'T KNOW WHERE THE TAPE IS HOW MANY OTHER PPL HAVE SEEN IT OTHER THEN THE ONES WHOM I KNOW HAVE. GO TO THE POLICE DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE THAT I DID.
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