Have you seen the contact list?
Do you know for sure that he has one?

Well shit! Same question again... can he tell you who's on the list to prove he really has one? EXACTLY who's on the list?

God I'm angry. How DARE he? I hate people like this, I wish we all knew who he was... oh boy would he pay! X

over 5o friends and a few family members and no he hasn't shown the list to me but he did offer to show me the video clip >_> I did delete that account however just incase he was bluffing but he could still post it any where on the internet.

whats done is done...DO NOT LET HIM CONTROL YOU. turn the tables. tell him to go to hell. worst case scinerio, he DOES show it. (if there even IS one) but think about this....OF COURSE he wants you to KEEP doing it....and what better way than to hold something over your head?? you did something you are obviously not proud of, and there is NO ONE HERE that can say they have NEVER done anything they are not proud of...even the people you are most afraid to know what you've done.
tell you what though...if you do as he says, he may very well record it and post it on the web!! think about it...he dictates when you do whatever it is he wants you to do....???
and of course DO NOT let others be hurt by him...actually, I've got one even better....call the police department and ask them if there is anything that they can do to help you....wouldnt he just crap himself if the police showed up at his door?? because you can bet if he's doing this to you he has done it to others, and prob still is and always will unless he is stopped

I don't know enough about him to get the police involved

hey anggie,

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Here is how I view your story. You are in a lose lose situation. First choice, you do what he says with the more webcam and/or tricking girls. But, what guarantee do you have that it'll stop after two weeks besides his word? And the word of this horrible man does not stand for much.
Second choice, you get the hell out of there and risk (just risk, because that list isn't a guarantee like the others have posted) having family and friends who know you and care about you see the webcam you already made. I think choice number two is the lesser of two evils. and least with choice number two, it's done. This experience is definately over.
And I would go to the police if I were you. Even if you don't know enough to truly get him arrested, you can at least alert the police that this man is blackmailing and exploiting women. They can decide what to do with that information. But my advice.
STAY AWAY! DONT DO ANYTHING ELSE THIS MAN SAYS!
I'm here if you need to talk.
P.S. We all do things we regret. And its just not fair and not your fault that you've been put into this horrible situation.

I think you should DEFINITELY go to the police. With whatever you do know. They have ways of tracking these people and the worst they can do is say no. I agree... DO NOT LET THIS MAN GET AWAY WITH WHAT HE'S DOING! If he cannot tell you who is on the contact list I don't believe he has one at all. What a bastard. We've all done stupid things, as has EVERY ONE of those people on your contact list. I also think perhaps it would be wise to confide in someone you are close to on that list... someone who knows you personally and who you can explain the situation to. Like your mum or your sister or a good friend. So that inside you know you have explained yourself to someone, just for your own sanity. Ooh if I could get my hands on him... X

I just thought of something else. Didn't he say to you he would knock time off for each other girl you sucked in? Think about this... if he plans on blackmailing each of these other girls... there's no way he can get a contact list for each of them. So how likely is it that he has one for you? I think he's full of crap and and I think even though it's hard you should laugh in his face and do your best to report him. Like harvah8 said, the lesser of two evils, definitely.

Hi Anggie,

Please go to the police. Even if you wish the ground would open up and swallow you whole this is the best course of action. I know you are stuck and I know this is so horrible it makes that awful pain within you but you can't let this happen. not to other girls and especially not to you. Even if the PD find they do not have enough to push forward with they will be able to take/direct you to a safe shelter if you do not have an SAFE place to go to now. They also have accsess to multiple reasorces which can help you. In the worse case senario of the fear that he will send this clip to your list boils down to this. You can pre-empt any vindictive move you might make by coming clean with those you are most worried about and tell them that you did something a bit silly in a moment of desperation and now this man is trying to hurt you with it. Anybody, family or friends who love you will get over their shock. Love, friendship and, support works that way. I personally have seen most of my friends and family members in compromising situations and although it may be not what I would have wanted to see at that moment so what? They are who they are and I love, like and, respect them for who they are. You are a very special and important person who is loved. One nasty oily creap might be able to take your clothes off and he might be able to hurt your body but he can not take that away from you ever. Please go to the police, take a family member/ friend with you for support. Yo uare strong and you can do this.

Hey, I'm so sorry you're in this position, it sucks. I have to agree with what everyone else has said - don't give in to this bastard. If you do as he says, he knows he's got you, and he'll have even more to hold over you. He'll have no reason to keep his end of the bargain.
My advice is either to go to the police, or if you really don't think you can, call his bluff. Even if, absolute worst-case scenario, he does send the clip, it's one mistake. You've done nothing illegal, and I'm willing to bet that a lot of people on the list have done much worse things. But I agree with Shelld, I think it's very likely that he doesn't have a list at all.
Good luck xx

i dont believe he has your contact list i think he is tricking you to try get more out of you... i really think u should report it to the police cause he could be doing this to loads of girls.. im here if you want to talk tho... x x

I would stay away from him and men like him if I were you. If I was offered some $500, I would not go on a webcam even if my life was threatened. I have a friend whose daughter (age 5 at the time) was molested via a web cam and the molester was later apprended and will come to trial next year for charges ranging from: rape of a minor, to evading the authorities.

I talked to a police officer about it today but I don't have the strength to take that route right now so I think I am just going to call his bluff and go from there.

I'm glad you are not going to submit. Believe me you would feel a LOT worse if you got into that neverending pit.
I'm glad you went to the police - and if later you need to pursue a legal route, it will be good that you did that.