Everybody heals at a different pace. ive been raped and abused many times, and ppl tell me that i got over alot of it too fast (?) i know it is hard, but as long as you can still take care of yourself then you can heal at your own time. you only need to be strong if thats what you want to be.

I'm tired of people telling us what is and isn't okay in our healing process. What matters is how well you think you are doing in your healing. My whole life since I told people about what happened to me, people have told me that I a doing too much and others have told me that I am doing too little. It is hard not to listen to people you care about, especially when they are trying to help, but you are the only one who can determine how well you are healing and what your healing process will look like. If someone thinks it is immature, I'm sure there is also someone out there who thinks the opposite. It's hard to measure progress in healing, and some counselors even think it is bad, but I always try to measure my progress too, so I know how hard it can be when someone tells you that you are not doing good enough when you are trying as hard as you can. Hang in there,

Tell whoever told u that to kiss off. Dont listen to them whoever they r. You do not have to prove anything to anybody. Everybody heals at a different rate. Rape leaves scars. Your scars might last years until the scars dont bother u much anymore to where u can and will live a normal life as u possibly can. It'll be ok as long as u keep people like who talk stupidity out of your life. Even if they r relatives.