Pulmonary Embolism Support Group
By far the most common form of pulmonary embolism is a thromboembolism, which occurs when a blood clot, generally a venous thrombus, becomes dislodged from its site of formation and embolizes to the arterial blood supply of one of the lungs. Symptoms may include difficulty breathing, pain during breathing, and more rarely circulatory instability and death.
I learned something new about the distance from the heart thing. Makes total sense!
If you wonder whether a DVT in your arm could cause a significant difference in the arms, I'd think it would be possible, but I don't really know. It just seems reasonable to me that if there were a DVT in one, it could possibly increase arterial pressures in that arm, since the blood has some impediment to proper flow.
I think if you are getting consistent and significant (as in, the second example ljhcnmt gave) differences in your arms, then it's best to talk to your doc about it. Sooner rather than later if you're getting it combined with any unusual chest pain (out of the ordinary for whatever you're used to from the PE).