Okay, so this is the only place i can thikn to put this.

I am currently and have been for about a year now, taking Monofeme the birth control pill.
Im VERY precise with it.... except for a week there where i wasnt... depression kicked in and i slept crazy hours, had work and my pill schedule went out the window. happened to be the same week that the bf didnt pull out or hold off.

its worried me for some time but i tried not to thikn about it and got on with taking my pills.... what i do is skip a period every 2nd month so im having 6 a year instead of 12. (for pain reasons too!)
anyways... looking in my diary i realised i have a HUGE event coming up right in the middle of my period week... YUCK. so i messed about with my pills... id started a new pack, taken a week of white... and then a week of the red(low hormone)(now im taking the remainder 2 white weeks)....but... period didnt come for 5 days... only lasted two days and WAS NOT normal... there was no actual bleeding, usually im passing clots... and usually its VERY painful... this past week... very minimal pain.

this is my 2nd period in 2 months because of the event, so im wondering if its cause theres not much build up... but my periods always start on the 3rd red pill day....

I have screwed with my pill days before.. i moved it back two days so i started on the reds on a monday instead of a wednesday and al was fine...

i know its kinda stupid of me but my mind keeps wondering... am i pregnant.

if it was as easy as getting a test and peeing on a stick i would... but i live at home and i cant have my parents finding that... so at the moment, out of the question, I'm just wondering if anyone else has had this problem, or what your ideas/opinions are on what the hell is wrong with me.

Thanks!