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Last night i was talking to my boy friend about how SOME other women have experienced miscarriages at like 15 weeks or later(stillbirths, ect)...and his response was something like, "you act like you want my baby to die". Thats not even true, and it hurts that he'd even think that...Just because im not HAPPY all the time, doesnt mean i want the baby to die, and my worries are because i HAVE had a miscarriage. (not a late one but at 6 weeks about 6 years ago, was 14...and it still really bothers me).I know 6 years is a long time but i was YOUNG, and still am but not as young. It bothers me sometimes also the way hes been treating me. He talks to other people like theres no problem...i just dont know.
Last night i was talking to my boy friend about how SOME other women have experienced miscarriages at like 15 weeks or later(stillbirths, ect)...and his response was something like, "you act like you want my baby to die". Thats not even true, and it hurts that he'd even think that...Just because im not HAPPY all the time, doesnt mean i want the baby to die, and my worries are because i HAVE had a miscarriage. (not a late one but at 6 weeks about 6 years ago, was 14...and it still really bothers me).I know 6 years is a long time but i was YOUNG, and still am but not as young. It bothers me sometimes also the way hes been treating me. He talks to other people like theres no problem...i just dont know.
Also let him know that all women who have experanced a loss like that grieve over their loss and durring the next pregnacy carry their fears of another loss with them .
hang in there . you just have to remeber that each day is a blessing. i know that i still get anxiety about my girl . and i think about the factt hat i might not get to bring her home. im scared of loss. and every week i celebrate on fridays making it threw another week . I do something silly each friday so that i feel exited and good . and every time i feel her move i thank god:)