Pregnancy Support Group
Welcome to the waiting room for anticipating moms and dads. Whether you're expecting your first or a new little brother or sister, meet other parents in this community who are also looking forward to a new addition to the family.
Are you smoking? That is the leading cause of underweight babies. Please get help if you are and do not be ashamed. Same advice for drinking, drugs...
If you are eating, staying healthy and not indulging vices...there may be little you can do. Doctors can only do so much. Some babies are smaller than others but turn out perfect! (Are you or hubby petite?)
Hubby and I are both tall and thin. I am about 20 weeks, have gained 4-5 lb, so now about 5'9" and 133.5 lb (9.5 stones) and still wear regular clothes, though I bought my first maternity clothes this weekend. No one, other than those we've told, can tell I am expecting. I think I am having a small one too. Yes, this can be nerve racking, but I must give it to God (or mother nature or the universe...)
I wish I had some advice, but I can only wish you and all other women going through this a good outcome and I send love and prayers.
I don't know what to expect on Friday, but I hope everything will be explained to us.
The worrying thing at the min is that I am needle phobic and I don't want to go to hospital on Friday not knowing what could happen.
I will keep you all updated and let you know how it goes.
I'm going to start having weekly NSTs to check on the placenta and see how it is doing.
Thank you for your comments.
I went to the hospital yesterday and had another scan. They are still concern about the baby's bowel. They also picked up that I have more fluid around the baby and that is not normal for late pregancys. They sent me to be checked out by a midwife and doctor.
They said the pains I was having was because of the fluid and all I can take is pain killers. They didn't seemed bothered about the recent findings at first untill I started asking more questions.
I found it hard to get the doctors to answer my questions and felt I was being ignored. The main question was "If people are showing concerns about the baby's bowel and the fluid around the baby and also the pain this is putting me in, why isn't any options of starting me early being discussed"
One doctor could not answer the question as he claims he was not experience enough and would get another doctor to answer my question.
The second doctor told me that they will not induce anyone till after 40 weeks because it could affect the baby's breathing despite the situation.
I was being told that they are sending me home with some pain killers and to go back for more checks later in the week. It took them nearly 2 hours to try and sort out the discharge paperwork to find out that 2 different doctors and a consultant was looking at my notes and the recent scans. I then had some one come back to me to tell me that because of the concerns raised they are going to induce me within 48hours.
The NHS have made me feel very frustrated and very low at the moment.
Sunday went very well. My little girl was born ok and has been given the all clear after a few checks. I was put on a drip after the birth to prevent hemeraging but was given the all clear too after that.
She weighs 6lb 1.5oz which is slightly smaller than my first, but she is healthy and well.