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Hi yall!
new to the site but thought i could get some of your views on things?
i'm feeling completely torn!
i'm a mum of one 5 year old, he is amazing, couldn't ask for a better son
But, have suffered two miscarriages, one was very early on, the 2nd was at the 12 week mark, these really (as you might guess) upset me, and took me a while to come to terms with things!
me and my partner (of 7 and a half years) thought we'd be ready to try again....
finally, it came as abit of a suprise i've fallen pregnant! and to be honest i really don't know how i feel about it, the main reason behind this being my partner now all of a sudden doesn't want another child, he's being really distant from me, i have nobody to talk to
i really don't know what to do anymore!
new to the site but thought i could get some of your views on things?
i'm feeling completely torn!
i'm a mum of one 5 year old, he is amazing, couldn't ask for a better son
But, have suffered two miscarriages, one was very early on, the 2nd was at the 12 week mark, these really (as you might guess) upset me, and took me a while to come to terms with things!
me and my partner (of 7 and a half years) thought we'd be ready to try again....
finally, it came as abit of a suprise i've fallen pregnant! and to be honest i really don't know how i feel about it, the main reason behind this being my partner now all of a sudden doesn't want another child, he's being really distant from me, i have nobody to talk to
i really don't know what to do anymore!
we've had a small talk about it, he says he's scared, if we had to go through another m/c he doesn't want it to break us, i know we're stronger than that :)
he'll only talk about it to a point though and then he shuts down, it's really frustrating me!
in all honesty i do have the same fear, but i don't want the fear to over take the excitement and joy of being pregnant..if that at all makes sense?
wishing you all the best with the rest of your pregnancy! :D
hugs right back at you! x
he's admitted to being scared of us having to go through another m/c...but also suggested abortion
totally confused!
i've thought maybe that would be his way of not having to deal with another loss in some way?
i honestly don't think i am capable of actually even making that decision, i'd NEVER forgive myself
hopefully will be having my 1st app with a midwife tomorrow,
we'll see how things go!
thanks again guys! xox