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With my first I did it, because I didn't know better, and I thought, hey what could it hurt. Well it came back saying that my DD had a 1/100 chance of having Down Syndrome. That was at 16 weeks. Pregnancy is hard enough without having that weight on you. Then at 20 weeks when I had my ultrasound, the doctor was able to look and said that she didn't show any signs of DS, like a cleft pallette, etc. So thankfully I didn't worry much after that. But still, it sucked.
I think for people who have some of these problems run in their family then maybe it would be a good thing. But then you have to ask yourself if it even matters. If you will love the child no matter what, and want to keep the child no matter what, then why stress yourself out over what the results show your child *may* have.
So for this one, I can definitely say I won't be doing it!
If you're going to keep the baby no matter what, and your family is clean of those kinds of issues--why worry? :)
The reason why I did it is because if my baby had a birth defect, I wanted to know and be prepared. I would not have aborted the baby if it did have DS - but many couples would which is a huge reason for opting to take the test.
When my blood work came back, it said I had a 1 in 200something chance and it stressed me out over the next three weeks waiting to get the ultrasound. Whats more - we were so excited to find out the gender of the baby and it was supposed to be a happy day - but it was overshadowed by the possiblity of something being wrong on the ultrasound.
My baby ended up having no markers - thank goodness - and so now I'm just not worried about it. I know someone who had three markers, then got the amnio which showed her baby did not have DS - thats alot of stress for nothing!!
Also, I'm not sure about other types of birth defects, but DS is not necessarily genetic - most babies born with DS do not have a family history. I would only go with the screening again if I was close to 40 yrs old.
My reason is that I would want to be prepared in the event that there was an abnormality. I felt that the longer I had to research the disorder, learn which doctors and which services are available for children with that disorder the better off my baby would be. Also, having more time to prepare myself emotionally the better it would be for me.
The down side is that the bloodwork is not a 100% answer. It gives you odds. In my case it took my odds from one in a couple hundred based on my advanced maternal age down to one in several thousands. So it was very reassuring. It could have gone the opposite direction and been one in 100 etc. I felt that knowing my odds was a good thing even if it went the bad direction because it would help me make an informed decision about if it was worth it to undergo the risks of amniocentesis or chorionic villus sampling. Because I was advanced maternal age I already qualified for a level 2 ultrasound (this is a higher level more sophisticated ultrasound than the normal 20 week us it is still done around the same time). However, if you are not advanced maternal age another reason to get the bloodwork would be that if your odds worsen based on the bloodwork than you would qualify for the higher level scan.
It did put a damper on my excitement of finding out the sex of our baby. We were so excited when we found out we are having a girl, but then had to meet with the counselor to discuss the what-ifs. It really ruined the excitement of finding out the gender. If I have any more children, I will refuse this test. I have read how inaccurate it is, and feel it causes unnecessary concern. After the ultrasound, the genetic counselor said the baby only has a .5% chance of having Downs. I hope this helps.
I did it for the extra ultra sound. It would not have changed my mind on keeping the baby.