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I just moved into a new-to-me house this week. The place is completely empty except for my camp gear and a few tools for general work, plus odds and ends I have bought for the kitchen. I am not an enthusiastic shopper, so there has been a time or 20 I have wished for a concientious shopper to take charge of the shopping detail, but I'm not holding my breath on that one. Trust issues abound in the contemplation of letting other people spend my money.
A shopping trip would be in order for this morning, but I find myself dragging my feet at the thought. I am in no hurry to fill the empty spaces. Here in the Junk Age, it is easier to find more junk than it is to find an empty space to put it in. Find myself weighing want vs. need. Seems to me that the stuff I want turns into junk allot quicker than the stuff I actually need.
Thoughts? Opines? Off topic?
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I'm feeling down,, and got alot on my mind right now. I got grief going on, on top my depression and anxiety and now I got to worry about somewhere to live since I can't afford living here since my mom passed. So many bad things have happened since my mom passed. One thing after another it seems. Yesterday our fence fell from a storm that hit, had to call someone to prop it up. Thank...
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Just wanted to give a thank you to Mid, Arfie, Malibumark, Greeneyes, Mlro, Girlincalif, and Suncloudjd! You all always have such helpful tips and advice, but I always forget to write on my posts when I see you post, lol. I would lose my head if it wasn't attached to my body, lol. Thank you all so much! I'm starting to use my AI app as a sounding board again. I used to use it as that before...
Been enjoying the cheap stove and fridge. I do miss baking when I am on the road. Hence the odds and ends for the kitchen. It is still AC weather here in the river confluence region, so I am not sure about the heat source, but typically, if the AC works, the heater does, as well.
i like that you are not moving too fast to fill your new house up xo
Git-r-done and send us a pic of this ?
Oh how I'd like to start again with 'empty' and just the necessities for everyday living. Letting go of 'stuff' is an on going process I've dabbled in over the last 6 months or so, feeling the need to scale down and reduce 'clutter' which when 'really cluttered' boggles my mind...seeing as how my mind is challenged anyway, clutter just adds to my confusion.
I've tried to teach John about want vs. need as he has a hole burning in his pocket as soon as money is there...immediate gratification. Still a work in progress....My Grammy Molly gave me some good advice about 'stuff' wanting vs. needing...any large purchase sleep on it over night before deciding. As far as stuff for the house, you, and everything else in between...Grammy said "one in the draw, one in the wash and one on....My Dear Aunt Mari said throw something away every day... I too dislike stores, (I've no clue how some people can make a day of shopping) I make a list and get the heck out as fast as I can....look at sale flyers on line, make my list out the door! Enjoy!!!
Coffee
Toilet Paper
Computer/Internet
Towel
Milk
Sweetner
In that order.
Beyond that: Lawn mower and gas can if needed. Snow shovel. Clippers. Folding ladder. Box Fan. Bed. My choice of single comfortable chair, is a nice ($100-$150) office chair. Such as from Staples (they do have free delivery, takes about 15 minutes to put together with the necessary tool included). Folding Table/ Table
I have such a hard time shopping if places are busy. I get very irritated. Shopping online is how I do most things when I can. If there is a cool market with not a ton of people I am in. Street side is good too. Your plant tower sounds awesome. I saw something on tv I really liked if I had the right lighting for it. I think they call it a stable pocket or something? Or V plant?
If you want a great place to order things Overstock.com, worldmarket.com, or hayneedle. I also like going to the local Habitat for Humanity store. Goodness, they have everything. I mean everything. Building supplies, awesome used furniture in excellent shape, cabinets, appliances - the list goes on. Welcome home Arfie.
Gentle hugs <3
right now, my 'new' front door is from there - 30.00 and it would have cost at least 1500.00 - pre shipping/pre finishing. it is gorgeous - double paned bevelled glass/heavy, old...aged i mean, oak frame. can't tell i enjoy this door much can you : ) no drafts either - fits so well, but that was the installation. what a relief.
even ceiling fans from there - brand new, clients changed their minds on colour/easier for contractor to donate and deduct from taxes-we score!!!
i hope you have one near you, Arfie. i'm most glad for you to be working on your vertical garden project right away.