It's a hard thing for many of us here. It helps lots of us to be able to talk about it without some of the shame that arises when discussing it in other places. Sorry for what brought you here, but it's good that you found us. Much support to you.

Welcome. I don't know about "Getting over it" as if it's a head cold... For me it's more about healing, and finding my way despite the fears and so on programmed into me by the trauma(s). Give yourself time, share what you want, as you want, and we're here.

Hello, Olivia. Welcome to the forum. It seems to be safe to talk about that here.

I am a child sex trafficking survivor. 1950's and '60's style. I haven't gotten over it, either, but I think I have made progress at letting it be a not-so-simple fact that it happened. I don't like to wear it on my proverbial sleeve, but it has been a while since I have gone into psychotic episodes when I reminded. Some days I am even at peace with all the yaddahs of my blahs. Well. . . Maybe more like moments. . . Works in progress. For sure I have days when I like myself just the way I am.

Again, welcome to the forum. Hope you find healing companionship here.

Hi welcome. I was only twelve when I was abducted by a stranger and sexually abused. It is a very hard thing to talk about aspecily for a guy. But time heals. You and only you will know when your ready. We will be here for you with an open ear.

Scott

Hi and Welcome Olivia... I am so sorry you've gone through such a terrible thing.... I think a lot of people work through it and find a way to go on in spite of it... They take back their power with help.... This is a great place for friendship, discussion and support... I'm glad you found us... Big hug....xo

Aloha, Olivia! Welcome to the group. You came to the right place.
I was sexually assaulted when serving in the military by someone of higher rank and my command defended my attacker and shamed me, accused me of lying, etc.
These kind of things aren't something you just "get over". But there are ways to find healing, accept what happened to you wasn't your fault, and having a support system is key. Be patient with yourself. I'm thankful for this group and I'm glad you've joined us now, too. :)

Welcome Olivia, I am sorry for what you have gone through. You are not alone!! Support to you!

i'm sorry that you are going through this. Its hard and as chesepuff77 said there are many like this but we are survivors and we are not at fault and we can get through it and it's not about getting over it...though sometimes I beg to differ that sometimes myself...with property support system, therapy and help from various sources will surely help. sending good thoughts and wishes.

Thanks, y'all :) Feeling a bit better

It took me a while to connect the dots, Olivia.

Welcome back. Glad you are feeling a bit better.