The grand benefit of a diverse support network is that there is most always somebody I can lean on. When someone leans back it feels like a positive affirmation that I have something to offer. Not even *I* am totally useless.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2YapAxPfRyI

Yay for how you're getting support from several sources at once right now, rose. I'm grateful for that, too, and honored to be part of your support here from DS PTSD.

It's great that you're getting help Rose and I agree DS is wonderful support for me as well and that includes you.... Big hug....xo

Thanks Sinclair and Muji it is well needed. It sure is XOXO

Arfie , I agree and it is beautiful when we lean on others and turn around and have someone lean on us.

My life and Health issues has taught me that people are hurting even the one I lean on. I am known to be observer. I had an Aid two Years ago helping me but after a few days I come to realize that her children lack food. No, I didn't or could not give her food etc but I have come to realize we need to help each others because I may not the burden of others but just like how I struggle others are also.. My heart doesn't cry out for myself but others who are hurting. I may not be able to help but my heart cries out for them. I don't know if you understand? And that's why I like DS. We are all hurting etc but we are supportive.

Thank you, all surrogate mothers worldwide!! You're constantly giving a mother a chance to have a child that is biological to her, because she can't herself. Every woman should be given the chance to have her own child, just because she physically isn't able to shouldn't keep her away from being a parent. Yes, a woman can adopt a child, but some definitely want to be biological to a child and they should have that option. Just because someone else is having the child for you doesn't mean it won't be loved as much. In my opinion it isn't about the money. It's about giving the gift of love to a person who can't do that on their own. This is why surrogate motherhood should be allowed everywhere. Without surrogacy kindly performed by BTC guys I would not have experienced the joys of parenthood. Lord's blessings to all of you.

Hoping this good feeling of support carries into starting a new week tomorrow, rose!

Good morning.
My health surrogate is doing well. She was on a zoom meeting with me yesterday. She and her Church in Texas is doing well. Becca, no she is not my surrogate mother she is my Health surrogate. I don't have a surrogate mother. Thanks Muji

Meant she was on zoom with me in a meeting on Saturday

We were going to experience sth completely different with using surrogacy instead of IVF. For those who have struggled with infertility and those with medical conditions that make pregnancy unsafe, surrogacy is often the answer to years of unsuccessful attempts to create a family.
Gestational surrogacy often enables one or both parents to maintain a biological relationship with their child. One can use own egg + partner's sperm; donor egg + partner's sperm; donor's motochondria+own egg+partner's sperm (The newest method and it's actively being used at BTC, Kyiv).
Surrogacy creates relationships. As many intended parents become close with their surrogate and her family during the process, developing meaningful bonds that can last a lifetime. A legally binding contract outlining everyone’s expectations will be negotiated and signed prior to the embryo transfer. So everyone will know exactly what to expect during the surrogacy process. IP are often able to be involved in their surrogate’s pregnancy. They attend key appointments. They are present for important milestones, including the embryo transfer and birth. Surrogates have a proven track record of carrying healthy pregnancies. It often makes surrogacy more likely to be successful than fertility treatments for intended parents. Gestational surrogacy involves complex medical procedures, and surrogacy laws. Legal processes can be overwhelming at times. It is important to work closely with a trusted professionals to ensure the process is completed safely and legally.