Do you mean Eulogy?

Mine for my father would be short.

"There lays a man who loved life, he loved it so much he forgot he was not the only one in it.There lays a Malignant Narcissist."
Then i would walk to his coffin and throw some cow shit on him and add "This is for me and all the animlas u abused".....
Since everyone there is gonna be ranchers that's a "nice" touch.
I'd walk out with my head held high.

At least i'm keeping with the cowboy theme.

A eulogy is a speech people give when someone dies. These speeches are given at the funeral to speak about someone's life. Most of the time people try to say good things, but with your abusers, you might only have bad things to say.
This might be a hard thing for you to do, but healing.

Yeah, I am wondering why they call it a eulogy as well. If you did a real eulogy that bashed someone, everyone would be appaled! I think they should have come up with a better term!

I am going to ask a question as I have not done a "Courage to Heal" book and I am curious.
If this book is done for your personal healing, you should be free to write whatever you feel can be said to the person you talk of.
My question is: does this book get read by others, or does it stay private?
It makes a huge difference as to how I would write "so and so" eulogy.

I have never heard of someone giving a negative eulogy, but that is quite interesting. It may sound morbid, but some people write their own eulogies just to see if their lives are on track. You know, what I would want someone to say about me when I die, that I have been a good person and made a difference to people's lives.
What can people say about someone who is just plain evil?

@mideyebrow,

the book is not intended for others to read, although sometimes people use in in therapy so they might share it with the therapist......personally, the only way I would even consider doing the book is with a therapist, becasue I find that there is a ton in it that is very very triggering, and I have been told by my therapist & other survivors that a lot of people find that to be the case...

....not knocking the book bc there is quite a bit about it that is good and can be healing, but I would really hesitate to recommend it to survivors unless they already have some healing done and also are willing to use in in therapy or along with someone else who can help them stay safe while they are working thur it

YES--I mean eulogy and I plan not do this cause it would be too much for me.


ladydi1961

Some day, you will get the courage to do it.