my husband got a Facebook message from her, "I'm horny, baby" that he showed me. She has been very obsessed with men and dating. He said he hopes it was spam; I asked her if she'd sent him a message and she says she was spammed, but I'm not totally convinced. 

Last night, I showed her a picture of me from an event I dressed up as punk rock. She very deliberately said, but why is Carly in the picture? "Carly" (not using real names) is one of my best friends that I know mom considers  and has called "dumpy," even though she's very pretty but not by mom's standards. She pointed at my picture. I know she has bad eyesight, but I think this was a dig at me.