I hope I did not miss a post, but you might find the Breakups and Divorce board of better help for this situation? https://www.dailystrength.org/group/breakups-divorce

I already put my post in that board. Thank u.

After more than 10 years of relationship my husband cheeting on me by starting a new relationship and I have been a psychological victim of the situation for almost a year he is being lied to me all the time and brought me on a roller coaster of emotions also made me believe that We could try to save the relationship a lot of times. I am a mom of a little kid. finally we have decided to separate and I am in shock, I did not want that to happen but it is the best for me.

I am so sorry, you have truly been put through the wringer. And for it to end with separation, your shock and disappointment are completely understandable. Do you have close friends or family to support you in this time? Maybe even someone outside of your own circle, like a pastor or a counselor would be good to talk with for support during this time. Do you think your husband would be willing to talk with someone? I hope everything works out, I will praying for you and your family during this time.

I've read that divorce is similar to death and the grief is of the same magnitude for some. I am so sorry for all you've been through, it is hard to change when it wasn't your choice to change. This new terrain is different and challenging on top of the emotional throws of it all. I hope you have a support system around you and that the transition is on your side. Being cheated on hurts a lot, it shakes you to the core and makes you question more than a person should, I mean the cheater should be reevaluating themselves not the other way around. Keep venting and take good care of yourself.

Thank u so much for your words life is not fair but my journey needs to continue. I am sure something better is waiting for me.

Get out never trust a man