The best advice that I can give to you...is to save your love...for someone who will love you back.

Easy to feel trapped when in an abusive relationship. He is now putting you out there in a very bad way. I would consider telling him that if he continues doing this, you will need to go to the police about both the initial event, and the current behavior. This is not love on his part, which has you on a one way street. There will be more pain ahead if his behavior goes unchecked. Just my opinion. Hugs.

I agree with Patti. A person who hurts you doesn't love you, only themselves. It's best to save your love for a good human being who treats you with honor and respect. I would listen to your parents and go to the police. Otherwise, he will think his abuse of you is OK and worse he could be doing it to other people.

As a guy myself, oceaneyes, I can tell you this guy doesn't love you or care for you and is using you instead and then bragging about it by putting those photos of you on the Internet. Something's really wrong with him. What's love got to do with it? This is just abuse. You need to get away from him fast, and to help you do that calling the cops is a good idea. That's what they're there for, to stop guys like this.

After being in a 14 year long abusive relationship leave now don't give him the chance to explain himself it will continue to happen. You may think you love him but you will find the right person. It may suck now that he has put you out there on the internet but if you report it to the police and just be done with him you will be better off. Believe me I understand it is not easy to just leave but that is what places like this is for so you can have support through it.

I don’t usually respond to anything posted in this group. But, your post just broke my heart.

What is this king of men doing to protect, honor or care for you? His actions speak louder than words.

He needs to be reported to the police so he doesn’t do what he has done to you to other women. Don’t discuss it with him first, just do it. You might be saving your life as well as someone else’s. Abuse generally escalates over time.

Get some counseling to process your rape and explore how his abusive behavior has affected you.

You deserve someone who respects you and your boundaries. Make a better life for yourself by believing these things. Take care.

I can relate. If you’d like to chat feel free to message me. One thing you need to know is that you can’t change him. If this relationship works for him, meaning he’d satisfied and sees no reason to change, you have no reason to stay. You are valuable and you are allowed to protect yourself. When he does something unacceptable, if it is safe to do so, issue consequences. I do not mean to treat him the way he treats you. I mean address the issues and make sure you have healthy boundaries. Message me if you’d like to know my personal experience

this one is very easy. since you won't get this guy the help he really needs, do yourself a very big and wise favor and stay away from him. No possible good could ever come from this person. HE is very selfish and self serving. you could do much better then him. it sounds to me he doesn't deserve you.

Sounds like you have nice parents, that is great they are protective of you. I did not get that or support from mine, I would keep close to the ones that are nice and kick that ex boyfriend in the nuts. I know if seems hard to talk to the police, but what have you to loose?
Besides, he will do that again to someone else. Focus on getting nice girlfreinds and leave the dating for university is my 2 cents

Gentle hug...… I agree with what the others have written sweetie...… Those who love you don't hurt you and rape you..... That is terror not love..... Don't let him continue this sweetie..... The things that he's doing will keep you down...…

I agree that he will continue to hurt girls/women if he isn't stopped...… Another hug and a blessing.....xo