So am I a rape victim? In a way? It doesn't make sense though. It was over roleplay not real life. How could it be considered rape?

As defined by the word rape, no.
But there is the act of cyber bullying. And cyber sexual abuse of a minor here. Believe me real rape is more detrimental, since it also includes the physical body memories of the forced action, been there. You need to get help for you, since the reasons you succumbed to his threats and coercion is a part of you that needs the care. Your laws in your state decide whether it was a crime, if it was , prosecuting him will get him on the radar. If he crosses state lines in this type of action, he has also crossed judicial lines of prosecution. I don't believe he has only done this with you, since this type of perversion usually escalates the longer they get away with it, also you were probably not the first. So he will continue to do this to others.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape

Here is a story simular to yours, maybe a councilor can help you decide to prosecute or not. But the decision is yours. This is becoming more pronounced as a form of abuse, so some states do and some states don't have laws in place.

Please read it only if you feel safe and comfortable, since her story may cause triggers in you.

I am only posting to let you know that you are not alone in this type of abuse. More and more people are coming forward.


http://www.tcwmag.com/cyber-rape-revenge-porn/

Thank you for explaining that. I was confused and that cleared things up. I am so scared and wish this hadn't happened to me. I want to be able to go throughout my day without feeling like he's watching my every move even though he probably isn't. But I have that constant fear that won't go away. I really want to know how old he really was. He claimed to be 16 and I partially believe that and partially don't. :'( I can't believe I let him use me like that.