Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Support Group

Find support with others who have gone through a traumatic experience. Whether you have chronic or acute PTSD, we are here for you.

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itasca 03/26/2015

Hello, I am a new member and wanted to give other members a little background. I had PTSD 15 yrs ago from having been sexually abused as a child. I had a great counselor & support group and made it through the worst of it in 9 months. I sought help because my PTSD was so bad I couldn't be out in public(incluing shopping). Things went really well till 4 yrs ago when my husband of 38 yrs became physically & emotionally abusive an a woman (that he claims he ha nothing to o with) starte stalking harassing me. Feeling I was being attacke by 2 ifferent people at the same time, my PTS returned an after 4 yrs I'm still trying to recover. She still oes things occasionally and I am still with my abusive husband so I'm sure nthat's why I haven't recovered yet. I am trying to get strong enouygbh to deal with these 2 people.

CrazyCanuk 03/26/2015

Yep that would bring back your PTSD symptoms for sure. I am sorry you find yourself dealing with all this and the PTSD symptoms. Glad you found this site. There is lots of good people here.

You did not mention what you are doing at to help with the PTSD symptoms. Do you take meds? Are you seeing your counsellor again? Would it be possible to talk with your doctor about this? Would it be possible to talk with a women's shelter about your situation?

It does not have to be like this, and there is hope. Sometimes the hardest part is asking for help.

Welcome to the group.

arfie 03/26/2015

Welcome to the forum, itasca. Sounds like you will fit right in. Topics such as what you listed get allot of discussion here. Some of us have even found that strength we need for recovery and progress through the mutual support that goes on here. Hope it is so for you, as well.

Welcome aboard. I look forward to getting to know you.

autumnleaves50 03/26/2015

welcome..:)

donnawanda 03/26/2015

Welcome.

drangonflylady 03/26/2015

Welcome- I'm sorry for what has brought you here. You are dealing with a lot and this is a good place to start. it you haven't already gone back to counseling you should think about going back. That will help you get strong enough to deal with 2 people attacking you. Also keep posting here cause you will find a lot of support here.

mujicaptsd 03/26/2015

First off, I'm glad your initial PTSD treatment was so good for you that it gave you some good years before this bad stuff triggered a relapse. So sorry the triggers came from within your marriage. Mine did, too, when my spouse became abusive in the course of having an affair with a coworker of mine. So sorry you came here for that reason, but glad you're here. You're not alone.

Cantseemtoshakethis 03/26/2015

Welcome,
I've the spouse trigger problem myself. I'm just sorry you've got to deal with this crap all over again. This place helps!

spacepony 03/26/2015

Welcome xx

LeoX3 03/26/2015

Hello and welcome to the board:-)

My PTSD was probably always there, in mild form, and now? Prisoner of my own past, trying to manage going to the grocery store (so far, no dice), etc. So you are not alone in the symptoms or situation.

Can't add much to the above advice, just know that we're here, and there's a lot of us who'll understand.

Gentle healing and peace to you,
Leo

FloydLover1969 03/26/2015

Welcome :) so sorry about the crapola Life has dealt you, that you are still dealing with. We get it, we understand. Glad to have you aboard :) (((hugs))) best, Manda xx

itasca 03/28/2015

Thank you all for your kind support. It means a lot to me to find other people who understand. When I first dealt with my childhood sexual abuse (15 yrs ago or so) I had an excellent therapist & felt the worst was over after 9 months. I got so I could go anywhere again without having a panic attack & most of the other symptoms were pretty controllable. This time I have tried 3 counselors and I felt the first 2 were only putting a bandage on a gaping wound, but they have helped me survive. I am on my 3rd week of a new counselor who is trained in dealing with PTSD so I am now hopeful. She has told me it's very hard to heal ( but not impossible) when the victimization is still going on and I have to see the stalker several times a day. I am so greatful I found all of you!

MillaSofia 03/29/2015

Welcome. This is a caring, intelligent group.

DoooOver 03/29/2015

Welcome :)

silverlining4hope 03/30/2015

Welcome :)

I hope you find peace and support here :)

I just replied to the comment you left for my post on being re-victimized through stalking. I can relate to you, it's very hard psychologically and emotionally. I can also relate to having to deal with many things at once. It's been my life for the past year. *Hugs*

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