Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
sorry i havent been here in a while. i have been dealing with the breast cancer and between my diagnosis and now the home i had literally fell apart.
now the kids, me and last him all live with my grandmother and dad.
he lost his job 2 weeks ago so now we are trying to keep the insurance for the cancer treatments.
he is still in dog house and i have no desire to let him out.
if i could i would have cut him loose in january but you may remember uncle sam sabotoged that route.
now he really really tries to do better, poor soul just cant.
oh well.
as soon as i have this cancer done (and my new boob job) and he uses his 401k to get me another house, i'll start working on putting physical distance to match my emotional distance.
i have been dreading letting you guys know what was going on because it seemed so unbelievably weak.
must be that dad gum chemo brain. gets me all mixed up.
would you believe after my last chemo session he was all pissed about the kids noise (we were in the car) then he lost $20, and while looking for it pulled out condoms, tried to hide them from me.
i said what is that? he said billy bob (whoever) must have left them.
ON THE DRIVER'S SIDE BETWEEN THE DOOR AND THE SEAT!!!
i didn't fuss because i didn't care.
he became soooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet.
now he is working my nerves extra.
been sacrine (?) sweet since last thursday.
if i didn't need the house and my cancer insurance i would pay someone to take him.
just so i have a jump on it, any takers for say next august. i should be done by then.
love ya'll and i'm keepin' my head up!!!
now the kids, me and last him all live with my grandmother and dad.
he lost his job 2 weeks ago so now we are trying to keep the insurance for the cancer treatments.
he is still in dog house and i have no desire to let him out.
if i could i would have cut him loose in january but you may remember uncle sam sabotoged that route.
now he really really tries to do better, poor soul just cant.
oh well.
as soon as i have this cancer done (and my new boob job) and he uses his 401k to get me another house, i'll start working on putting physical distance to match my emotional distance.
i have been dreading letting you guys know what was going on because it seemed so unbelievably weak.
must be that dad gum chemo brain. gets me all mixed up.
would you believe after my last chemo session he was all pissed about the kids noise (we were in the car) then he lost $20, and while looking for it pulled out condoms, tried to hide them from me.
i said what is that? he said billy bob (whoever) must have left them.
ON THE DRIVER'S SIDE BETWEEN THE DOOR AND THE SEAT!!!
i didn't fuss because i didn't care.
he became soooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet.
now he is working my nerves extra.
been sacrine (?) sweet since last thursday.
if i didn't need the house and my cancer insurance i would pay someone to take him.
just so i have a jump on it, any takers for say next august. i should be done by then.
love ya'll and i'm keepin' my head up!!!
Glad you are keeping your head up and that things are not so bad. And thanks for checking in and letting us know.
Hugs to you and hope things go ok between now and when you can find your freedom.
Just pray for me to be able to ignore the pervert (likes to WATCH me lotion my legs. Asked for an encore (?).)
All this after pointing out for the hundreth time we haven't had sex in 9 months.
I finally told him, even if we were in that kind of a relationship I still couldn't because of the meds I'm on.
I know the truth doesn't register with him, just made me feel better to know by his actions that he just isn't that into me.
Well us grownups do what we gotta do. As long as it isn't low or wrong.
I even informed him, again, that if he isn't happy the way things are he should leave. Really don't want to be the cause of anyone's pain.
Oh well.
Thanks for being so cool guys and gals.