Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Lately ive been feeling split between laughing and smacking him til i feel better.
Im glad i finally realized what has been going on and refuse to be his -or anyone elses- victim
anymore.
I feel strong and clear in my goal and then he will try another tactic.
I will let him know he is pushing my boundries AGAIN and he will pull back and try to regroup.
No matter what he says or how he says it i have the same answer GET OUT GET DIVORCE GET HELP AND THEN MAYBE I'LL LOOK AT YOU IN A YEAR BUT NOW I DONT TRUST YOU. YOU KILLED THAT AND I MAY NOT TRUST YOU IN A YEAR BUT THATS THE BEST YOU'LL GET OUT OF ME AND IF YOU PUSH YOU WONT GET THAT!
I try to always say what i mean and mean what i say to be a good role model for my kids and show them how to handle what and who comes at them in life.
I wont go through the whole chain yanking things he tried last night to show me he changed (yeah right) but i heard everything he wasnt saying and how he tried to minimalize the things he admitting to, did i mention these are the things he SAID he told the pastor he is talking to?
So no, no, and pardon my french HELLL NO i wont let him stay and work it out. I cant stand to by touched by this man I wont be his prayer partner (what a joke) and stop saying you love me every 3 minutes. I dont buy it.
Well im smiling one minute because he is so funny and, want to slap him the next til he gets sense (which he really needs.
So here i am.
Im glad i finally realized what has been going on and refuse to be his -or anyone elses- victim
anymore.
I feel strong and clear in my goal and then he will try another tactic.
I will let him know he is pushing my boundries AGAIN and he will pull back and try to regroup.
No matter what he says or how he says it i have the same answer GET OUT GET DIVORCE GET HELP AND THEN MAYBE I'LL LOOK AT YOU IN A YEAR BUT NOW I DONT TRUST YOU. YOU KILLED THAT AND I MAY NOT TRUST YOU IN A YEAR BUT THATS THE BEST YOU'LL GET OUT OF ME AND IF YOU PUSH YOU WONT GET THAT!
I try to always say what i mean and mean what i say to be a good role model for my kids and show them how to handle what and who comes at them in life.
I wont go through the whole chain yanking things he tried last night to show me he changed (yeah right) but i heard everything he wasnt saying and how he tried to minimalize the things he admitting to, did i mention these are the things he SAID he told the pastor he is talking to?
So no, no, and pardon my french HELLL NO i wont let him stay and work it out. I cant stand to by touched by this man I wont be his prayer partner (what a joke) and stop saying you love me every 3 minutes. I dont buy it.
Well im smiling one minute because he is so funny and, want to slap him the next til he gets sense (which he really needs.
So here i am.
I would almost growl at him :) when he would tell me he loves me every few minutes and tried planting a kiss on my forehead over and over. it was quite obvious what he was doing. it's like he came down with amnesia from one minute ago. I can't stand when they just act like nothing happened.
just dont touch me and i wont throw up on you in front of ppl