so i just bought a house in the same area as his family literally all his aunts, cousins, sisters and mom live within a mile of us and i am worried if i put him out i will have to face some of them physically. i have tried to put him out once since we moved in we have been there about 8 months and of course i am doing it because i am in a house now and i just used him to watch our kids so i wouldn't have to bay childcare. anyway i gave him the option of calling his mom to come pick him up or calling the police to come put him out. so of course he calls his mom and the mom and the sister come to the house and instead of them taking him with them they come in and try to get us to "work things out". you need to work it out for the kids, ya'll have this nice new house and 3 beautiful kids yall need to stop all this foolishness. so needless to say he didn't go and the cops are the last thing i want to do because i know he has attachments for unpaid tickets i don't want him in jail i just want him away from me. ohhh and of course when his mom ask him whats going on he says " i don't know happened i'm trying to figure it out myself" like i am the crazy one after he followed me around for the better part of an hour talkin shit in my ear about how dumb i was and shit like that!!!! anyway the type of homeloan i have i have to live in the residence for 10 years so its not like i could sell or rent it. i just don't know what to do