Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I recently moved to a town (Colwyn Bay). Staying positive in this town is a task & half. In an additional negative situation.
I have not been around such a negative, derogative, demoralising, manipulative, jealous, calous, spiteful, petty, small minded, resentful, aggressive, nasty... etc people for a long time. These people seem to spend their time trying to get one up on each other and competing for dominance, image & status... all the time.... Petty like painting a fence and everything else around and inbetween.
Like a people that have lost all sense of hope, self integrity & respect for them selves etc... become nasty, spitful and always angry. Lost all sense of simply being happy about being alive and living and simply existing. Everyone aggresive to everyone. and all of the above... Constant squable for status over each other...
There is no lift each other up as you would find in a civilized town, city, society. Kindness & support. There is only all of the above....
Example:
I stopped in a garage the other day to pick up a drink whilst cycling. And the guys there became aggressive & defensive, rude even common occurrance here. Once I showed I was not a threat they relaxed around me.
Quite a deprived area. Lack of education & values. Where people seem to think that being a criminal, thug, drugy is something cool and to be proud of... And the majority of bad parents actually encourage this behaviour. Or don't give a damn. Then the tight nit small communities groups of people all then defend each other. And claim what a wonderful town this is....
Shocking....
I got the local territorial primates eye balling me daily. As I won't submit to theor dominance.
Horrible, horrible town..............
Some of the bad locals who associate and defend the trouble makers try and socialise with me. I have no interest. The majority of people here are bad people.
I will be moving some where else in due course.
Like this morning one of the territorial primates was eye balling, and aggressively stairing at the building. One out of jealousy and two out of the fact that I'm intruding on the local's territory....