So i got my hair blown out today for 20 dollars. I make 300 every 2 weeks and he makes 600 every WEEK. We were going to eat and he was going to pay. I paid an extra 5 for hot oil so he said oh I guess drinks on u then. I got insulted because he said he didn't think I could afford to help but Now he knows I can afford 5bucls for a drinkm Then he said "No, because you get your hair blown out, plus your oil massage every week, and I'd like some financial help from you for our outtings Especially since I'll be doing most of it with AC this weekend..If youre broke, but have money to pamper yourself, it would be nice to receive some help here and there from you. Not asking a lot, here" I told him I can't afford AC he still insists on going cause his cuz is and I alwayssss help out like I'll put money inbif were out like say we eat n drink I'll buy the drinks or the food n vice versa said didnt think you had the means's to but now that I know I can ask for help and i never said that u dnt help how are u getting insulted it was a simple request and ur making a big deal..meanwhile he says that he doesn't do things for himself but I do and he only does things for us and then said that in most cases that's not okay to say and u pissed me off so I said that and u confused me. If we went to couples counseling theyd say we argue about more than one thing the problem is YOU got insulted cause I asked for help. A bf should ask a gf for help and vice versa and I shouldn't be insulted and i said u only asked for 5 bucks and he said it goes a long way it adds up it wasn't to insult u. Like rly? 5 dollars u apparently NEEDED to ask me for when u found out I spent 20 on my hair? I said we shouldn't go if u don't have 5 dollars so he said no I do but I assumed u had it so I asked cause yea it could help. Sorry if that didn't make much sense I'm just really upset. Now he's telling me that hes coming to my house to tlk and he doesn't care what I say.