Well, the contact has started and I am thus far staying strong. I realize if I let him get to me in any from, be it phone, email, social site, anything, he has too much power to gain access back into my life. I can't even be friends with him as he is not capable of the truth, of boundaries, of even respect or caring about a person enough to keep communication open. He uses it to punish and to manipulate. :(

I find it odd that as soon as I deactivated my Facebook account with his friends on it and blocked them from my new one (even though he is not on any account to my knowledge) he has started trying to call me. Luckily I took the initiative to block his calls and they won't even go through. I did it to my sister in law as a test, and found out it will ring once on their end then go to a dial tone. You cannot even leave a message. Unfortunately texts go through.
So two calls last night show on my call log and a text, simply saying " Hey"
One call early this morning.
I am a nervous wreck at work as I can't control him calling here.
Asking for positive thoughts and strength to continue onward with NC and taking care of me.