Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Ok.. kind of weird.......
Last night of COURSE.. hubby came into the bedroom and asked for sex.... I wanted to seriously bang my head on the computer desk in frustration... I mean seriously HOW many times must I go over this topic with him? Of Course I just looked at him dumbfounded and went over the WHOLE issue again... (tiptoeing on the topic cause I didnt want to piss him off).... he tends to get mad over this topic....
soooo walked away muttering.. something.. believe me I didnt call him back into the room to see what it was...
Well this morning... He just called me... (He actually let the girls sleep in.. x-mas break.. and got them ready and took them to daycare... ) and said
Do they sell depression pills over the counter..... I was sat there.... and got a little quiet like I always do when I dont know what to say.... and I said "Ummm no not legally"... U have to go to a doc.... to a therapist.................... how many times do I HAVE to go over this topic also... JEEZ.... its not hard to do.....
sure its hard at first admitting u are having a problem.. but no one is there to judge u... u know?
do gosh.... now what? do I try to talk him into going to talk to someone whether that is a doc or therapist tonight when I get home.. I know they say .. that he has to make the first step... and I cant do it for him.. but is this a call out for help or not?
Last night of COURSE.. hubby came into the bedroom and asked for sex.... I wanted to seriously bang my head on the computer desk in frustration... I mean seriously HOW many times must I go over this topic with him? Of Course I just looked at him dumbfounded and went over the WHOLE issue again... (tiptoeing on the topic cause I didnt want to piss him off).... he tends to get mad over this topic....
soooo walked away muttering.. something.. believe me I didnt call him back into the room to see what it was...
Well this morning... He just called me... (He actually let the girls sleep in.. x-mas break.. and got them ready and took them to daycare... ) and said
Do they sell depression pills over the counter..... I was sat there.... and got a little quiet like I always do when I dont know what to say.... and I said "Ummm no not legally"... U have to go to a doc.... to a therapist.................... how many times do I HAVE to go over this topic also... JEEZ.... its not hard to do.....
sure its hard at first admitting u are having a problem.. but no one is there to judge u... u know?
do gosh.... now what? do I try to talk him into going to talk to someone whether that is a doc or therapist tonight when I get home.. I know they say .. that he has to make the first step... and I cant do it for him.. but is this a call out for help or not?
I've done that and mine has yet to seek help. Yes mine tried to have sex with me too. When I shot him down he said you never want to. I gave him a lame excuse but it was the truth that I was in pain.
How can he want me to have sex with him when he's an ass to me? doesn't he get it??