Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Why is my husband being an ass. For one he claims I'm average even tho I am supposedly the only girl he slept with. How the hell would he know what is average or not? He is a crappy person. He uses me. always puts me down, anything I want to do he tells me that I will fail. He took advantage of me while I was drunk. He threatens to take away his pay check if I don't obey him. If I do anything wrong I will get screwed.
Is it really worth it, living with him making me feel like crap? I am suppose to bow down to his every whim I will be sorry. I am his wife his partner not his slave. That is how a feel, like a slave. Obey him, he uses my faith against me.
Since I am a woman I am suppose to sleep with him when he wants, clean the house by myself, take care of our daughter, go to my job, and cook him dinner.
He may be deployed right now but when he is here in the states, all he does is sleep, eat, go to work, play DND, and repeat. That is all he does. He doesn't help around the house, doesn't help with our daughter, and doesn't cook.
What is wrong with me that I am still with him? He is physically and mentally abusive.
This is a marriage, a partnership, and not master and slave thing. He treats me like his slave.
Is it really worth it, living with him making me feel like crap? I am suppose to bow down to his every whim I will be sorry. I am his wife his partner not his slave. That is how a feel, like a slave. Obey him, he uses my faith against me.
Since I am a woman I am suppose to sleep with him when he wants, clean the house by myself, take care of our daughter, go to my job, and cook him dinner.
He may be deployed right now but when he is here in the states, all he does is sleep, eat, go to work, play DND, and repeat. That is all he does. He doesn't help around the house, doesn't help with our daughter, and doesn't cook.
What is wrong with me that I am still with him? He is physically and mentally abusive.
This is a marriage, a partnership, and not master and slave thing. He treats me like his slave.
I'm so sorry for what you've endured.
Only you can say whether you want
to continue living as you are.
Most of us would probably advise you
to contact your nearest women's center
and let them support you in helping to
start sorting things out.
Life free of abuse
still has it's bad days. . . .
but a whole lot fewer bad days
than being married to an abuser.
Sending you hugs
and healing thoughts
Please take good care.
We only get one life, one chance to make the best of what we can with our lives. Once it is gone we can not go back. Use the rest of your time here doing what makes YOU happy! If someone is stopping you from being happy then its up to you to break yourself free from those chains, to rise up from your ashes! NO one deserves to be taken advantage of by their own husband! NO one deserves to be put down and have their dreams shattered by someone who is suppose to be their biggest support! Keep yourself and your daughter safe ! Be strong and good luck