Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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I found out about stbx going online dating sites 2 i found in his history.
he has been begging and looked all sad and lonely at church now Pastor wants me to call him.
we went to see pastor once a few months ago so i guess he knows from our last session i aint kidding other wise he would have wanted to see me face to face.
as i posted earlier friday night h beggin for one more chance.
now realize all he did wrong.
apologized to our little ones for being what he is (yea right)
supposedly seeing a pastor for counseling.
with all of this he is doing (yeah him)
surely he deserves another chance.
i dont remember how it came about but somehow he just out and asked me (i REALLY thought h understood my intentions(i know he did))
did i want a divorce. i looked him dead in his eye and said yes while my mind was like ???????
he cried more and tried to ask forgiveness then i hit him with the whammy. He gave me another std! man you should have seen the look on his face.
he looked so done and just slid to the floor and cried.
i told him i would give him his privacy and left the room.
then when he had a moment to gather his thoughts hes like when did you get it i haven't done anything in 5 yrs. (NOT WHAT HE TOLD ME AND PASTOR LAST FALL) any way...
whenever i get ready to doubt myself and even think about getting soft on him God sends me a flash or a slap to snap me out of it.
now he cant do enough , sing enough, im soooo beautiful, he loves my smile blah,blah,blah.
next step, taxes put out.
pray it goes well i still dont trust him not to flip but now he knows his cover is blown. i really dont think he wants to go to jail. but if he doesnt mind at least ive got that base covered for my kids.
thanks for letting me bounce things off you guys.
i really am looking for validation and maybe even some of your same experience stories
i even changed my avatar because he is soo nasty and could have given me something to take me from my babies.
he has been begging and looked all sad and lonely at church now Pastor wants me to call him.
we went to see pastor once a few months ago so i guess he knows from our last session i aint kidding other wise he would have wanted to see me face to face.
as i posted earlier friday night h beggin for one more chance.
now realize all he did wrong.
apologized to our little ones for being what he is (yea right)
supposedly seeing a pastor for counseling.
with all of this he is doing (yeah him)
surely he deserves another chance.
i dont remember how it came about but somehow he just out and asked me (i REALLY thought h understood my intentions(i know he did))
did i want a divorce. i looked him dead in his eye and said yes while my mind was like ???????
he cried more and tried to ask forgiveness then i hit him with the whammy. He gave me another std! man you should have seen the look on his face.
he looked so done and just slid to the floor and cried.
i told him i would give him his privacy and left the room.
then when he had a moment to gather his thoughts hes like when did you get it i haven't done anything in 5 yrs. (NOT WHAT HE TOLD ME AND PASTOR LAST FALL) any way...
whenever i get ready to doubt myself and even think about getting soft on him God sends me a flash or a slap to snap me out of it.
now he cant do enough , sing enough, im soooo beautiful, he loves my smile blah,blah,blah.
next step, taxes put out.
pray it goes well i still dont trust him not to flip but now he knows his cover is blown. i really dont think he wants to go to jail. but if he doesnt mind at least ive got that base covered for my kids.
thanks for letting me bounce things off you guys.
i really am looking for validation and maybe even some of your same experience stories
i even changed my avatar because he is soo nasty and could have given me something to take me from my babies.
Good for you!
TYPICAL ABUSER.
Toss the burnt cookies and get out of the kitchen till you're ready to mix a new batch!
These guys really will just say ANYTHING. They have no concept of truth or lies - only of convenience. Mine was cheating on me for at least a year and a half with some on line tart (sorry, but she's a lying, manipulative b*tch too). I found emails, I saw him sending her "kissy" stuff on line, I heard his phone conversations with her, and yet he told me over and over that they were "just friends". Until one day, he suddenly wanted a friggin MEDAL for "coming clean" and admitting that, at one time, he had had feelings for her. At one time? WTF??? He was STILL spending about 15 hours a day or more on line and on the phone to her.
And then he'd tell me how I should give him another chance. How "this time" it would be different. Ahhh, so many "this times". And they never were different. He understood that he had treated me badly and was very sorry for it. But that didn't stop him continuing to do exactly the same things. I started having to avoid him in the evenings, when he'd be drunk, because I didn't want him getting violent again. The upshot of that? He told me that he was now showing me "respect". How? "Well I haven't hit you in a while". Wow ... what a guy. How did I EVER let him go.
So yes, I do know just how you feel. And I LOVE the avatar! You go girl. Kick his worthless lying cheating butt to the kerb and create a better life for you and the kids.
he just cant seem to get around this divorce idea.
i must be civil for children sake but really dont care otherwise
he made the statement he couldnt take care of 2 households i told him (strange i did much better before you than since i married you)
you should have seen his face!
it was priceless.
just waiting, waiting and hopeing still he doesnt decide to flip.
pray for me and kids.
much love to ya'll