Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I left on a hasty decision. I was down and out had a bad weekend and i walked out now regretting it terribly. I didn't like the way he made me feel but i wanna go home. I miss him, i miss the family we had. I'm miserable now! I'm sad and lonely. I sit and wait for his texts even tho they aren't particular nice and he doesn't miss me (so he says). I cant deal with this. I just want my life back but without the abuse. He has said he would have went to counseling with me before i left and i wanna go now. I should have never left. I'm no good for anything like this!
I started counseling yesterday and wasnt what i thought it would be but was just my first session.
I just wanna go home
I started counseling yesterday and wasnt what i thought it would be but was just my first session.
I just wanna go home
I promise u that neither did I. I promise u that I too didn't believe it and like u said "I didn't want to believe it!"
I have a theory and it is this.
You have two parts of yourself, one is logic you and the other is emotional heart u.
Logic u is your wisdom, your gut, your knowing!
She knows she shouldn't be with him! She knows she is in a better place right now!
Emotional heart u is arguing with logic you. She's still in "his belief system" where she doesn't think it's that bad, where she listens to him and believes its all her imagination (of how bad it actually is) she can only see him because she is in his belief system (he believe himself to be in the right)
Emotional heart you will never be the you to see you throu this. She will always keep u there because she doesn't want to believe that he isn't the man she still thinks he is (she tells herself that deep down he's a good man!)
Now is the time for u to get logic you to take charge!
Read books on abuse, do research. Get to see him really for what he is! Rely on the wisdom of that part of you which is very real and strong but is being ignored! All I am suggesting is that u let logic you have more space inside your head (like reading abuse books and research) just a little bit, I'm not suggesting u ignore your feelings, but that you pay more attentions to that voice of wisdom!
If u do u will find that she is very wise!
She will be your saviour from all this pain! I promise!!!