Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

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Has this happened to you?

Keepthepeace
Keepthepeace

Have you stayed silent so long that eventually words would spit out unintentionally?


This has happened to me. 


Unintentionally, words that had been said or things that was done were spitting out of my mouth by accident.


Smallbee
Smallbee
I did when I wasn't allowed to say what I felt. They would all just burst out, and I would find myself in a world of trouble.
idiotstampedonmy
idiotstampedonmy
Very much so! They just blurt out! =/ But, I don't think it's by accident. It's that you have had ENOUGH! They HAVE TO come out. I'm in the middle of a divorce by a verbally & emotionally abusive husband. Since we've filed I have not been able to bite my tongue. I was able to do it for 4 years of it. and worse yet I've sworn I would not argue or say anything in front of the kids. But, lately it seems the pressure/stress has over-written my brain.
I think maybe the brain or the heart just naturally tell yourself you just need to get them out. =) =(
G8tful
G8tful
That happened to me shortly after leaving my ex, I started telling people what had been happening that I was keeping a secret for so long. Some of it to people I wish I hadn't. It was like a pressure cooker letting off steam.