Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Nobody is all good and nobody is all bad I just have to fight hard for the good I understand why I deserve this I'm never going to give up I can't she doesn't treat everyone like this it's because of how I came in the world I know I don't have control of being born but I was I just need to figure out a way to show her I'm sorry and that she is loved then she might forgive me and love me back dose any one understand what I mean if you can't stand someone at there worst you don't deserve them at there best I wish I could have her explain why it's my fault even I made her this way I can't explain it like her but I don't know please don't judge her and help me figure out a way to fix it dose nobody understandÂ
It sounds like you want to change something in your mother, thats she is emotionally abusive because of her experiences, and you are hoping that you can do this through your actions. You can not change someone, they have to be willing to change and do the internal work themselves. The only thing that you can do is focus on yourself. Focusing on yourself does not mean that you are giving up on your relationship with your mother, it will give you the strength and space to see things clearer and support your relationship in other ways. Just remember that the actions of others is in no way your fault nor should you have to feel burdened by them or feel like they are a reflection of who you are.