Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
crazymoon5150
I need some feedback ,I have two friends, yes really they are my two friends who after the yboth up and left thier spouses for each other in the last year, we've all known each other for 20 plus years , well , now they are acting bizarre they've cut everyone out of thier lives, They've jumped into this relationship, Im worried about my friend the woman Jenny. We've been friends a very long time and I've known the man involved longer, since we were in grade school, Ive always liked him, but I feel shes in over her head, this guys always been obsessed with her since we were teenagers, he married a woman he didnt love treated her like a dog, and then when theyfinally hooked up he tells his wife that he's alwasy been in love with my friend , his wife and my friend are both named Jenny so its confusing, well ,I have this Sinister feeling about him,its like hes obsessed with her now ,my friend, hes cut her off from all of her friends, ive never seen him act this way before even when we were teens or I just didnt notice it ,She left her husband and divorced him under the assumption that he was abusive to her ,and jumped right into this relationship with A. They are professing their love for each other,Sheleft her husband for the very same reasons That A is/has done to his wife, but she doesen't see it ,now we're all the enemy ,Its like they are feeding of each other, and its not healthy, hes enabling her ,hes feeding her BS "Its was her husbands fault for treating her like shit, its my fault because I kept them apart, a very long time and he even asked me if I was going to run him off again, I didnt think nothing of these comments when they were said until now, Shes so brainwashed, shes cut me out of her life, wich I began backing off months back b/c nothing I said seemed to get thru to her, he alienated me when I told her I didnt think it was a good idea for him to move in with her so soon, for petes sake she wasn't even divorced yet, this all happened rather quickly, I mean he was moving his stuff in right away,And i've always liked Adam hes always been a nice guy I just dont like the persons he's become and he told me he will stop at nothing to make sure this relationship works, she got a way two other times, at first I thought they were endearing , now I find it down right scary, Shes a love addict I do believe ,He blew off his BF when he tried to talk him, now us ,I am truly baffled as to what do I fear that this will all blow up again like it did 20 years ago, she told me on many occasions over the last 20 years that Adam always creeped her out and she only thought of him as a friend, and now shes stating they are going to be together for the rest of their lives, does this make sense ? Please give me ashout out ,should I stay out of it or should I try and fight to protect my friend, ?
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