Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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hey everyone; im new to this site and havent ever gone to forums for any forms for help so this is new to me. Ive been living with a roomate for two years and have previously lived with them for ten years prior cause growing up i didnt have a functional house life or upraising; pretty much raised myself; but i've tried everything in the book to get through to my roomate and set barriers and limits to what i dont want being done to me in regards to how im being treat and i dont know what to do; things gets turned around on me all the time and even if im in the right im made to be in the wrong and then without a doubt something goes wrong not to long after and i feel like my life is being sabotauged. Ive gotten two years under my belt at st clair and im finishing up my school and trying my hardest but because of my affiliation with this roomate most of my so called friends have abandoned me and now i have no one to turn to; this is becoming a progressively difficult problem to deal with and i dont want to risk loosing everything ive fought so hard for; can anyone offer any form of hel because im honestly almost off the deep end on this matter; any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
situation is very obvious and
I'm sorry for what's happening
to you.
Without enough actual details
about your circumstances, I can
only comment on what I can
infer, which is that you're nearing
completion of your schooling
and would like to just get through
without making major changes.
If that's the case, I'll ask if
you can get through financially
in these circumstances till the
completion of your schooling.
If you can do that, then attempt
to minimize interaction with this
person, finish school and when
you're done, remove yourself from
where you are and make some new
living arrangements, leaving this
person in your rear view mirror
permanently.
If things are currently so bad
that you simply can't endure
another moment in this situation,
go to a staff member of the
school and share what's happening,
to see if there's no way to find
another housing option through
to the end of your semester.
Either way, most schools have
a counseling department
available to students for
the price of tuition. Go
there and set up to talk
to a counselor.
Sending you hugs
and best thoughts
to manage this till
you can move on
to another chapter
in your life.