Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Right on schedule. The past couple weeks on Friday I either get a text or a "accidental phone call". I have been terrible at no contact. I am good for a couple days. Then I get mad or upset or want to speak my mind. Now its been about 24 hrs...and it's Friday and I get a text "So I guess you're back to hating me again." I want to scream. So infuriating. Why continuously torture someone. He has someone new!!!!!
Submit his email address to your spam list. Many email programs have a filter option when you can auto send an email to the trash. But before you do that, make copies of everything & document everything he's doing. It might come in handy. Go in person to your local police station and tell them he is stalking you and you want to know what the laws in your state, county & city are that will protect you.
Also contact your local shelter and ask them to help you create a SAFE plan to keep him out of your life. Also ask them for a referral to a trauma release therapist and an attorney who can help you legally block him from contacting you. It's especially important if you have minor children.
As unfair as it is, the only way he will stop is when you stop him.
~healing hugs~
because you're talking to him.
It doesn't matter
that he has a new
supply. As long as
he can reach you,
he will.