Do any of you think abusers can be good people who just happen to be abusers or does being an abuser disqualify you from being a "good person"? Many of my abusers seemed like good, nice people so I'm grappling with that debate. What do you guys think?
I did to do the dishes and I just dont want to or have the motivation to get them done I want them done i just done I just dont know.
Trying to make my fiance feel special, we have two kids and he works long hours everyday and I just feel like sometimes I can be alot to handle and I'm trying to make sure he feels appreciated and loved, any ideas?