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Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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here i go again.

jstanicegirl
jstanicegirl
Well...It has been quite some time since I have posted on here. I haven't had it in me to say anything without feeling like I'm just complaining and not doing anything to better my situation. But I have yet again told him I want to end it and I want him to leave. I need to go through with this for I feel I am disappearing. I feel as if I need to save myself. But I have been here before, thinking I was strong enough to do this and I haven't followed through. He has already started with how I have torn his heart out accompanied with how many women would gladly swoop him up and would love to have sex with him. I need to do this. The idea of feeling at peace after so long is beyond appealing, but I know he has the ability to turn it around and have me begging him to stay. Need some strength.
cant74deal
cant74deal
You can vent all you want. You can come here anytime you want. There's lot of ways to gain strength, and sometimes it's by having people validate you, being understood. That is not doing nothing, that is gaining something you can use to better your situation. I thought about leaving all the time, I tried twice and failed before I got out for good. I NEVER think of people who stay as weak, or failures, or complainers. I just think of them as not ready yet-like I was. I understand how hard it is. If I can do it, you can do it.

Have you thought about a plan for how you would safely leave?
IleneW
IleneW
"""""""""""""""""""""I know he has the ability to turn it around and have me begging him to stay. Need some strength.""""""""""""""""""""


Please, Hon -----

There's support out there
that can help you find the
strength that will enable
you to NOT be "turned
around."

I don't know where you
are but in most places,
there's a women's
resource center
somewhere near you.

And regarding how
many other women
would trip over themselves
for the opportunity of
having sex with Mr. Wonderful. . . . .

That may be true and
it may not be, but what
is practically a guarantee
is that as soon as he
starts abusing them,
they'll be posting on
this forum, same as
you are, today.

Please reach out
for on-the-ground
support. It's there
for you.

You can reclaim
your life. You
can do it. Get
some support
and you'll find
the strength to
BE THERE FOR
YOURSELF.