Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
so after being at hospital all day with my elderly aunt i was already stressed out only to come home to find my neighbour playing parking games. briefly her husband drives a breakdown lorry which he parks halfway across our frontage on the pavement. it was getting further and further our way so i started parking our car so he couldn't do that.then as soon as our car was out and he went out in his lorry his wife started parking her car halfway across our frontage and moving it when he came home in his lorry . so tonight after being at hospital most of the day i came home and saw she had done it again. i went crazy i didn't see her but i was shouting alot. i was shaking . then my partner said she wouldn't back me or sign a petition which another neighbour suggested.as my partner said she can't see what he is doing wrong . thing is when we have visitors stay they have no where to park with his lorry there. i tried to calm down but now i'm getting so i'm going to lose it completly.these neighbours try to intimidate me things like banging on the wall because i dare put a shelf up after us enduring 3 weeks of horrendous noise when they did diy.the other day i lit a very small fire at night and she was banging on the window. all this has made me really unstable i'm sick of it. how do i try and rationalise.
Just to commiserate, not really help, sorry...
One neighbor has a brother who has fetal alcohol syndrome. "He'll never be mentally passed age 17" she said. I sympathize, sure, but maybe remind him every time to take a bag on the dog walk? Or don't let him walk the dog?
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Thing is... I can deal with dog shit. I have to. This complex has more dogs than it does people. But this guy let's the dog poop directly on the porch or on the side walk, or in the pathway I take around the building - which is so clearly a fkn path ...
I had to call the management on them twice for smoking cigarettes inside. I felt like an ass hole when she confronted me on it in a very kind manner, explaining she has no where to go if they're evicted, which they would be for any other incidences. But seriously... I have to keep my sanity, and my sanity doesn't involve constantly reminding anybody, child or grown or disabled, that dog poop doesn't belong on sidewalks.
The nosiest people ever.
Have you got an outlook to get your anger out? Like art or running? Or have friends to give you support when your partner doesn't?
How about taking pictures and going to the police station to ask about your options.
At least it's not them making noise at all hours of the night...