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betrayal

ponygirl74
ponygirl74
Not ageist me but by me. I crossed someones boundaries and hurt a person I care about. I'm a bad person. Who was I to displace the trust they had in me and betray them? Why do I keep doing this? I will not blame them for no longer wanting to be my friend. What I did was wrong and I'm deeply ashamed of myself. I'm shutting off mt feelings. I only hurt the people I love in the end. I can't do that anymore.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i doubt you really hurted someone.
I mean you may have gone off on someone,insult them???

minor, not that is ok to do it all the time, but hurting someone is a very strong word.

If what you did doesn't demand jail time from you, you probably really did not hurted someone really bad and if you hurted their feeling an genuine apology should help.

don't be so hard on your self.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I also had betrayed some one that I love, and hurt them very badly. I took all the trust they had for me and threw it right out the window. The good news is that we are still friends and get along well. But the bad news is that we will never be in love again. But i would rather have them as a friend instead of nothing. There is hope for you, you can find ways to distract yourself from doing the bad things. Its trail and error to find what works, but when you do find it, it really works. I wish you the best of luck and dont be so hard on yourself, stuff happens.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You cant just shut off youre feelings though hun thats not the answer
you need you time.The past 2 weeks have been hell for me i officially hate facebook and penpalling i had someone i thought was a friend betray me deeply and do some of the most horrendous things you can do to anyone now my trust is shattered so i know all about building a brick wall and closing in on my feelings and trust if you need someone to talk to please feel free to message me take care x