Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
I do think that there's something to be said about addressing some of the "root" of issues rather than just the symptoms, although I think that any good therapist who attends to interpersonal dynamics would be able to do at least some processing of that. i think that the patient would have to be psychologically strong enough to withstand the feelings and realizations that might come to surface, too. Once the therapist gets her to that point, perhaps it's worth the try.
If DBT didn't work so well for you, perhaps this is indeed worth a try! Maybe you can contact a psychoanalytic organization in your area (I don't know how...Google as usual?) and they might be able to direct you to the more specific practitioners...good luck!
Traditional psychoanalysis is not effective for BPD. HOWEVER, almost no one practices traditional Freudian psychoanalysis anymore and almost no one would try it for BPD.
Traditional psychoanalysis, a few times a week, on-the-couch, unstructured, based on childhood memory is a bad idea for BPD. But currently, when it is a face-to-face, 1 or 2X wk treatment, based on trauma work, transference and developmental psychology, it is very effective. However, it takes therapist many years to learn this approach so most therapists don't know how to do it well. You would more likely find it in large urban centers that provide advanced training. Such as the program at Weil Cornell center in NYC, with the link from Joyce3001.
There are MANY misunderstandings and prejudices against psychoanalytically oriented therapy these days, usually fostered by insurance companies and ill informed therapists. Some of the very best, well respected and published therapists with BPD, including James Masterson, Glen Gabbard, Otto Kernberg, Peter Fonagy and others use a psychoanalytically-informed approach and will use a transference-based strategy. This may also be called "Mentalization-Focused" wich includes how the mind thinks about problems.
in the hands of a well-trained, experienced therapist this may be even more effective and long-lasting than DBT (there are complexities with research designs and outcome but more and more is coming out about the benefit of psychoanalytically informed therapy. See Shendler, et al for details).
While psychoanalytic approach had many faults in the past and deserved criticism, there have been many changes in the past 20 years. These have not been promoted adequately so that the public thinks that CBT, DBT, etc. are the only and "best", which is not the case.
http://psychcentral.com/news/2007/06/05/therapy-for-borderline-personality-disorder
http://psychcentral.com/news/2012/10/24/borderline-personality-disorder-sufferers-can-improve-with-psychoanalytic-therapy/46573.html
http://www.psychsystems.net/lab/dynamics_bpd.pdf
http://www.ucl.ac.uk/psychoanalysis/research/mbt.htm
http://focus.psychiatryonline.org/article.aspx?articleID=50191
http://www.borderlinepersonalitytoday.com/main/masterson2.htm
http://www.borderlinepersonalitytoday.com/main/gabbard.htm
http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/article.aspx?articleID=100776
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http://internationalmastersoninstitute.com/about/
http://www.iabmcp.net/Masterson.htm
http://bpdresourcecenter.org/about.html
http://www.thegabbardcenter.com/teammembers.html
http://weillcornell.org/ottokernberg/
http://www.borderlinedisorders.com/personality-disorders-institute-professionals.php