Personality Disorders Support Group

Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.

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Xtina 03/02/2010

I spend most evenings/nights with my GF but, the moment she wants to go home. I feel like it's the end of the world. I fight, think she doesn't love me, threaten, cry...you name it I do it.

I am working on myself (AGAIN).

Last night we talked about our plans today both seperate and my thoughs are she won't come over after dinner.

Today when it was time to say goodbye this AM my frist thoughts are OMG are we going to see eachother, is she going to come by again today (I work from home)..

I wonder now at 11:03 am how am I going to sleep?

How can I stop this horrible cycle. I trust & love her she is the best and understands me completely...

What can I do to now sabotage another relationship.

deleted_user 03/02/2010

I have found that we with BPD find ways to sabbotage relationships coz that is all we are used to and that is abandonment...it's a huge issue for me too. I will even try to start a fight...coz that is what I was always used to, but my hubby (#2) will not fight with me...I am sooo glad.....
good luck to you
peace!!!

deleted_user 03/02/2010

Have you told her how you're feeling? I know what you're going through, i do the same thing and don't know how to stop it.

Xtina 03/02/2010

I do tell her about it and it drains her. She gets afraid to tell me shes leaving. It's not fair to her that we can't communicate.

She has her own issues as well. The more I push the more she shuts down.

I just want to stop the cycle. I just want to be normal....I want to feel love!!! Not the love I make up in my head.

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