Hey whats happened?

We're here if you want to talk. What did they do? And if it's a recurring thing (which it sounds like), why do you still hang out with them..? Or do you live with them?

I'm sure any one of us here would be happy to help give you some encouragement and support if we knew more of the details.

*hugs*

Course having dependant personality....the friends are Christians,however,I feel like they are judging me....and then I get dependant on them...then we talk....then we disagree....a lot what they say is in the Bible...BUT I just want to be ME and do need a break from them.....I am struggling to do things on my own...its hard to explain....all my people died....Mom,Dad,Grandma,Grandpa ,etc...so this put me in a cling to my friends frame of mind....so sorry this may not make sense to some...maybe it does I don't know....I. just need a day where I can make good decisions with a good mind...

*big hugs* I do hope that things can work themselves out. I know it's scary trying to imagine facing things...especially if it feels like you're alone. But you're NOT alone!!!

I believe that you will find a way to help yourself accept this reality. You are surrounded by people who love you!!! :) I do hope that all things work out for the best. Remember, your nerves will only fry if you think that everyone will reject you. Just try to keep positive. :) *hugs*

Sounds like theirs been a considerable amount of loss in your life, and you're plagued with fears that everyone your close to will either die or leave, and this has possibly lead you to depend on maybe the wrong types of people, for the wrong reason (I could be way off here) often its easier to cling to people that may not necessarily be the most positive forces in you life, and it can be draining and crushing to your spirit...sometimes the hardest step is the first one...take a step back from the situation, that in itself sometimes helps life the fog from ones mind where they think, no I don't want thins, this is bringing me pain, or making me unhappy...and sometimes doing so can be really empowering...in time you will overcome your fear of abandonment, and be the person you truly want to be...strong, and able to make independent healthy choices and decisions, decisions that are best for you, not what others think are best for you, sometimes its easy to get washed away with things...but your stronger than you believe yourself to be, and you've got the support of the community that will support you each step ya make, so never feel alone, because ya truly not, and if there's something in your life that's hurting you, try detach from it, and if ya can master that nothing can hurt ya again...(HUGS)

Why so serious.....you are smart...very very smart :) wow u put that well.....HUGS

I couldn't have said it myself WSS. Nicely put : )