Well, the divorce is behind us and he severed his parental rights. Now this Thursday, he has agreed to plead guilty and go to prison for 8 years!!!!!
Friday, my daughter and I are going on a vacation to celebrate!!!!! Woo!! Hoo!!
Time to move on with our lives and not dwell on this anymore.
This was published 2015 but I just found it online. It is a guide with training info for advocates who serve families after a child reports a sexual assault or abuse. It gets a gold star for including information on supporting parents of sibling sexual abuse (starting on p. 46). There is a ton of info there I wish I had known sooner, and that I wish the people working with us had known...
I'm pretty sure my son's half sister (3.5) is being abused by the same boy (my son's stepbrother, her half-brother) who abused him (and at least 4 others, according to my son's caseworker). The boy still lives with my son's father, and therefore her; he was never prosecuted because of his age. (My son does not see the boy. Visitation with his dad takes place at his grandparents' house.)She's...