Parents Whose children have been sexually abused Community Group
This group is for parents whose children have been sexually abused. We welcome both Mothers and Fathers. Here, we can offer support to one another. We can vent, cry and lift each other up. No condemning or criticizing allowed. We are here for support. We LOVE (((HUGS))) !
It has been 3 weeks. We have started taking my sweet girl to counseling. I know that it is helping her. She actually opened up to me for the 2nd time since she told us about the abuse. She told me last night that he held a gun on her!! OH MY GOD IN HEAVEN!! He held a gun on my sweet little girl while he hurt her!! Sometimes he even made her hold the gun. WTH?? She was so scared that he was going to kill her if she told or if someone were to walk in and catch him. She was afraid for me, her daddy, her brother, the POS's family. She really thought that he would kill us and you know, he may have. I cannot believe that not only did he shatter my little girl's heart into a million pieces that we will carefully pick up and help her to put back together, but the sick POS held a loaded gun on my child and really put her life in danger!! I almost felt as if things were moving forward a little and maybe were perhaps getting just a little easier... then, this!! My husband and I were beside ourselves with rage last night!! Of course, we did not let her see that. I just told her how brave she was and that I was so thankful that he did not take her life or anyone else's. After she went to bed, the agony surfaced!! Agony of imagining my baby being hurt by him and his scaring her with a weapon!! I just still can't even fathom this!! She also told me that one day, she was just really tired of his crap and she busted in the door and said, "I ain't doing this anymore!! I am telling my mama and you can go to hell for all I care!!" She said, "Mama, I was being a brat". I said, "Oh, no you weren't!! You were telling the truth and I am glad that you said that to him!!" That is exactly how I feel and I am not sorry even a little that he is dead. He did us all a favor and I am so very grateful every single day for that!!
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How devastating that must have been for your daughter but how brave that she said something and this has finally ended.
Charity7
She is a brave girl!!
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I don't know if I could handle hearing any details about the abuse my son and daughter experienced from there brother. My oldest son did get a concealed weapon license and he would keep the gun at his bedside. I don't even want to know at this point. I'm scared to know the reality of the details as none of that's has been disclosed at this point. My middle son was so anxious and suicidal when his live in girl friend left him and I now believe that the fear that his brother would molest him is what had him in shambles ....... That poor kid
Charity7
That is so sad!! I am so sorry for what your children have gone through at the hands of their own brother!! I know that it would be easier to now know details. I do want her to tell me so that she can get it out and begin to heal. I am sure it needs to be addressed at her counseling session. It feels like the first day I found out every time I hear something new. It is very hard and I definitely seek comfort in prayer!! Praying for you and your family as well as you make your way through this nightmare!!
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